He tells me “I feel like I do more now than before you moved here” and I'm like…. how? I'm doing all the cleaning he never used to do (vacuuming, mopping, dusting) and I've been doing all the laundry and sharing the dishes.
Like… the dog is OUR responsibility now like we agreed, that's the only thing he's doing more in my opinion. Theoretically we'd have to cook more often because now 2 people are eating here instead of one (he used to cook a big batch once a week and eat that the entire week by himself) but he's not even doing that, we're just eating out to fill in the gaps where we don't have home food or wanna try something different. I'm so lost.
He tells me “I feel like I do more now than before you moved here” and I'm like…. how? I'm doing all the cleaning he never used to do (vacuuming, mopping, dusting) and I've been doing all the laundry and sharing the dishes.
Like… the dog is OUR responsibility now like we agreed, that's the only thing he's doing more in my opinion. Theoretically we'd have to cook more often because now 2 people are eating here instead of one (he used to cook a big batch once a week and eat that the entire week by himself) but he's not even doing that, we're just eating out to fill in the gaps where we don't have home food or wanna try something different. I'm so lost.
You´re welcome. Clear boundaries are important and you wanna set yours up. I wish you the best of luck and I hope I´m wrong about him.