I've seen people mention before it's more about the time of the day that dictates who is live! to give the advice. Kids and younger adults will often offer poor advice because of their lack of experience, while older people with more experience will give a more rounded and contemplative opinion.
LOL this comment thread was gold ? the physical equivalent of this would be the OP bitching about how her boyfriend cant pick her up cus he got no arms.
He's just a boyfriend so just break up. He's not putting in effort, he doesn't seem to make you happy (nor care about trying to do so), and you're wasting money & energy for nothing. Move on to someone who will a minimum meet you half way. You don't have to stay unhappy.
That would be very embarrassing to deal with. A person in their late 20s behaving this way isn’t cute or normal, sounds like some unresolved issues at hand
Difficult situation but if u don’t try being a bit more dominant/kinky, she’ll eventually go elsewhere to someone who can give her that, talk to her about boundaries for this
You're still engaging with him despite him being emotionally unavailable AND him saying he 'wants' you. He's a walking red flag that's clearly not above cheating and you know this but still keep talking to him.
Let him know politely that it isn't going anywhere, you responding to him all the time is only gonna drag stuff out.
sorry for the question but you or your husband did something that gave them the impression that both of you would be open to that kind of “practice”? their insistence seems that at some point you gave them the impression that you would be open to this
Hmmm…I guess I’m a big romantic so I don’t see an issue with the “nice guy” trope.
Unless OP responds with his intention with each story…we don’t really know if he’s just generally nice or nice with a motive…which is what I’m thinking you are seeing.
Posting a date she went on, could be she used it for the gram. The posts even have “date night” written on and it’s editted up to be all showy. The person across table from her has their face not in the picture of course but I caught a glimpse of them dressed up with suit and tie. So yeah.
First of all, thanks for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it!
I guess my fear about seeming clingy is in case his more restrained behaviour is a sign of wanting to take things slowly – anytime I've asked, he's said he's happy at the pace we're going, but I worry this may be seen as something of an escalation – does that make sense?
I am definitely planning to bring this up with him this week though
What would he say to you for an explanation? Most likely he's just going to give you some lame excuse or lie to you. Do you really want either one of those as an answer?
Oh. Are you in a relationship?
Work wife? Sorry to say but it look’s terrible and like he’s cheating or wanting to.
I've seen people mention before it's more about the time of the day that dictates who is live! to give the advice. Kids and younger adults will often offer poor advice because of their lack of experience, while older people with more experience will give a more rounded and contemplative opinion.
Most men won’t stop watching porn. You need to accept that and not get involved
LOL this comment thread was gold ? the physical equivalent of this would be the OP bitching about how her boyfriend cant pick her up cus he got no arms.
Like no shit you fucking muppet ?
He’s a piece of shit
Okay but the mental image of the comment you're replying to is entertainment enough
If he's not shifting his dating age window as he ages, I'd guess he's a petty, shallow, narcissist.
He's just a boyfriend so just break up. He's not putting in effort, he doesn't seem to make you happy (nor care about trying to do so), and you're wasting money & energy for nothing. Move on to someone who will a minimum meet you half way. You don't have to stay unhappy.
That would be very embarrassing to deal with. A person in their late 20s behaving this way isn’t cute or normal, sounds like some unresolved issues at hand
Difficult situation but if u don’t try being a bit more dominant/kinky, she’ll eventually go elsewhere to someone who can give her that, talk to her about boundaries for this
You're still engaging with him despite him being emotionally unavailable AND him saying he 'wants' you. He's a walking red flag that's clearly not above cheating and you know this but still keep talking to him.
Let him know politely that it isn't going anywhere, you responding to him all the time is only gonna drag stuff out.
You sound like you want your hands clean. Pay for a therapist for the child.
sorry for the question but you or your husband did something that gave them the impression that both of you would be open to that kind of “practice”? their insistence seems that at some point you gave them the impression that you would be open to this
You honestly think you rolled on it 12 X and “entered” an incorrect code?
Is she bragging? Is she uncomfortable? Why is she doing it?
Hmmm…I guess I’m a big romantic so I don’t see an issue with the “nice guy” trope.
Unless OP responds with his intention with each story…we don’t really know if he’s just generally nice or nice with a motive…which is what I’m thinking you are seeing.
So she's just stuck with it forever & can never say, “All right, nope, this is over?”
I’m actually quite good looking thank you.
Posting a date she went on, could be she used it for the gram. The posts even have “date night” written on and it’s editted up to be all showy. The person across table from her has their face not in the picture of course but I caught a glimpse of them dressed up with suit and tie. So yeah.
If its not your apartment i would let him wake up to you and all your stuff gone with all contact blocked. And if you feel so, report the incident.
I would be genuinely frightened, shaking, and scared for my life if i was you.
He has shown his true colors and they were 50 shades of red flags.
How did that go though? Did the therapist think it was a problem? Did he?
Yeah ? suppose so
Find someone else who will love you for who you are no matter what before you're trapped .
First of all, thanks for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it!
I guess my fear about seeming clingy is in case his more restrained behaviour is a sign of wanting to take things slowly – anytime I've asked, he's said he's happy at the pace we're going, but I worry this may be seen as something of an escalation – does that make sense?
I am definitely planning to bring this up with him this week though
No offence but women know their men
Some guys do massages out of love and let's just say that others have ulterior motives
This is not news to women in a relationship
What would he say to you for an explanation? Most likely he's just going to give you some lame excuse or lie to you. Do you really want either one of those as an answer?
Good news is that your son sounds super mature. Bad news is your wife doesnt.
Good news is that your son sounds super mature. Bad news is your wife doesnt.
I know some people are giving you shit, but I think you come across as very mature for a 22 year old