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What if.
You don’t even remember what was said, so why on earth would it be important for your boyfriend to know that there is some extremely remote possibility you might have said something vaguely flirty, once, years ago?
Literally every single person you have asked agrees that this is compulsive overthinking — including your own therapist, friends who know you, and internet strangers.
If you already mentioned that your skeptical about her picking up a shift, she wants to show you she's telling the truth. If she works at a restaurant, she probably is hoping to earn larger than normal tips from those trying to impress their dates.
Then time to completely break contact, if necessary backed by a court order. Document everything. Tell friends when stuff happens. Keep notes and copies.
Please consider counseling to help gain perspective, skills, and help finding your voice. Also worth an hour of attorney time.
You always had suspicions. She denied. You finally had proof. She acknowledged some of that. You decided to stay. And then you leave.
But you offer to change your schedule to accommodate her. And you willingly allow your ex to track you. Both of those were steps too far imho. You are continuing to invite her involvement in your life….
You're probably right about his ego, but the concern still holds. Maybe the brother was awful to the boyfriend before, and this was the final straw, I don't know. Either way, I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone who slapped a family member across the face twice and threatened to do even worse. And I have some seriously shitty relatives.
People who hit people when they're offended (outside of self-defense) might hit you or your future kids someday. And that's a lesson you don't want to learn.
Regardless, your brother is a serious douchebag OP, and he should be worried about you hating him, not the other way around.
This is something you need to calmly discuss with your wife. You need to come to a solution together. Something you are both happy with. Both people need to try to see the others perspective and act accordingly.. Be honest in a non blamey way and tell her how you have been feeling. Neither of you are wrong. You two have to problem solve it together.
Sometimes just discussion and awareness can ease things. Or perhaps you learn big changes need to be made. A compromise example, you see her family with her once a month and she does things with you other weekends. Perhaps limit one family trip per year and at least one trip just with the immediate family. Maybe one trip just you two.
Sounds like your bf broke rule #1 and realized it too late. He cut her out of his life and got back together with you for a reason. He brought her into the dynamic, let him deal with her. You only broke rule #1.033 by sleeping with a guy who broke #1.
If he respected you & cared about you he would pay you back. Before my fiancé and I were engaged I had loaned him like 2500-3000 but he knew even though it was money I had in savings that I needed it back eventually. He respected me enough to have it paid back when his taxes hit & the rest a month or so later. I gave him time bc I trusted him & empathized with him, he paid me back fully because he respects and loves me.
I’m an only child and I’ve had an amazing childhood with very involved parents! I still had/have good social skills, and I have no trouble making friends on my own. I’m just one person, but I’m seeing lots of people with siblings in the comments so I wanted to give another perspective. Your husband is TRAUMATIZED. that’s a BIG DEAL. Shouldn’t you respect his mental health? 18 months is so soon. If he just complied to appease you, that’s 23 straight months of misery for him. You’re chill with that?
Of course thats a few because he isnt friends with all of them. I work with 20 people in my office, 18 of them are female and i connect with 6 of them on a personal level so we go do things together in our free time.
Nothing wrong with that in my eyes. All i see here is a jealous gf that cant see male and females being friends without an underlying agenda.
Since you cant say it like that you go the route of ” he is hiding something”.
And regarding that one girl that was cold to you: they talk about relationships you said? think about what he might have told them. And then look at the situation again.
I’m going to trust you.. because I’m in the bathroom and I don’t need some NSFW audio to pop off and my wife to think I’m in here watching porn ? Because *I’M MARRIED!!
What if.
You don’t even remember what was said, so why on earth would it be important for your boyfriend to know that there is some extremely remote possibility you might have said something vaguely flirty, once, years ago?
Literally every single person you have asked agrees that this is compulsive overthinking — including your own therapist, friends who know you, and internet strangers.
If you already mentioned that your skeptical about her picking up a shift, she wants to show you she's telling the truth. If she works at a restaurant, she probably is hoping to earn larger than normal tips from those trying to impress their dates.
Then time to completely break contact, if necessary backed by a court order. Document everything. Tell friends when stuff happens. Keep notes and copies.
Please consider counseling to help gain perspective, skills, and help finding your voice. Also worth an hour of attorney time.
You always had suspicions. She denied. You finally had proof. She acknowledged some of that. You decided to stay. And then you leave.
But you offer to change your schedule to accommodate her. And you willingly allow your ex to track you. Both of those were steps too far imho. You are continuing to invite her involvement in your life….
Nope, time to report him.
Do you plan to have kids with this idiot? Are you ok raising them alone after a few years, after you have to flee from him?
No?
Ok find someone better (and safer)
You're probably right about his ego, but the concern still holds. Maybe the brother was awful to the boyfriend before, and this was the final straw, I don't know. Either way, I wouldn't feel comfortable dating someone who slapped a family member across the face twice and threatened to do even worse. And I have some seriously shitty relatives.
People who hit people when they're offended (outside of self-defense) might hit you or your future kids someday. And that's a lesson you don't want to learn.
Regardless, your brother is a serious douchebag OP, and he should be worried about you hating him, not the other way around.
This is something you need to calmly discuss with your wife. You need to come to a solution together. Something you are both happy with. Both people need to try to see the others perspective and act accordingly.. Be honest in a non blamey way and tell her how you have been feeling. Neither of you are wrong. You two have to problem solve it together.
Sometimes just discussion and awareness can ease things. Or perhaps you learn big changes need to be made. A compromise example, you see her family with her once a month and she does things with you other weekends. Perhaps limit one family trip per year and at least one trip just with the immediate family. Maybe one trip just you two.
Talk to her.
Showed his true self…….run
I think you should suggest he gets a penis enlargement and see how that goes down.
Sounds like your bf broke rule #1 and realized it too late. He cut her out of his life and got back together with you for a reason. He brought her into the dynamic, let him deal with her. You only broke rule #1.033 by sleeping with a guy who broke #1.
If he respected you & cared about you he would pay you back. Before my fiancé and I were engaged I had loaned him like 2500-3000 but he knew even though it was money I had in savings that I needed it back eventually. He respected me enough to have it paid back when his taxes hit & the rest a month or so later. I gave him time bc I trusted him & empathized with him, he paid me back fully because he respects and loves me.
He has absolutely no right to tell you how to dress. The fact that he thinks it’s fine to control you in this way shows you the kind of man he is.
Millions of dollars? Damn that sounds like a dumb investment.
I’m an only child and I’ve had an amazing childhood with very involved parents! I still had/have good social skills, and I have no trouble making friends on my own. I’m just one person, but I’m seeing lots of people with siblings in the comments so I wanted to give another perspective. Your husband is TRAUMATIZED. that’s a BIG DEAL. Shouldn’t you respect his mental health? 18 months is so soon. If he just complied to appease you, that’s 23 straight months of misery for him. You’re chill with that?
Why would that be different.
Of course thats a few because he isnt friends with all of them. I work with 20 people in my office, 18 of them are female and i connect with 6 of them on a personal level so we go do things together in our free time.
Nothing wrong with that in my eyes. All i see here is a jealous gf that cant see male and females being friends without an underlying agenda.
Since you cant say it like that you go the route of ” he is hiding something”.
And regarding that one girl that was cold to you: they talk about relationships you said? think about what he might have told them. And then look at the situation again.
I’m going to trust you.. because I’m in the bathroom and I don’t need some NSFW audio to pop off and my wife to think I’m in here watching porn ? Because *I’M MARRIED!!