Sounds like you ran into a pseudo “nice guy”. Nice but with a conflict of interest behind the niceness.
Mad because he wants you to consider his niceness as making him a better candidate and this torpedoes his nice guy routine. He's not so nice with how he handled it.
She’s not even your roommate, she’s your guest in your home. She pays no rent, it’s not really her place to tell you who to have in your home. It’s not like your asking to hang out with her kid and your new boyfriend. It honestly sucks that you can’t have sex in your own home because your ex is there rent free. It’s genuinely super kind and selfless of you to have her there at all.
Sounds like you ran into a pseudo “nice guy”. Nice but with a conflict of interest behind the niceness.
Mad because he wants you to consider his niceness as making him a better candidate and this torpedoes his nice guy routine. He's not so nice with how he handled it.
She’s not even your roommate, she’s your guest in your home. She pays no rent, it’s not really her place to tell you who to have in your home. It’s not like your asking to hang out with her kid and your new boyfriend. It honestly sucks that you can’t have sex in your own home because your ex is there rent free. It’s genuinely super kind and selfless of you to have her there at all.