I'm sorry, OP. That really sucks, and your feelings are absolutely valid. All I can suggest is to make a found family with people who do care about you, and spend less time with the people who don't. Don't be always chasing after people who don't bother to take time and effort for you.
You are wise to not blame the new wife. She does sound respectful and decent, so I'm glad you are okay with being on good terms with her. Is she someone who might become an actual friend, aside from her relationship with the rest of your family? If she's nice and they're not, then you could choose to build a friendship with her while limiting your time with the family members who are dismissive of you.
The 'someone else' in this case hasn't got a consciousness or a life yet. But i get the sense that there is absolutely no point discussing this with you.
Yikes what a mess. You’re unhinged and her cheating is the least of your worries.
I'm sorry, OP. That really sucks, and your feelings are absolutely valid. All I can suggest is to make a found family with people who do care about you, and spend less time with the people who don't. Don't be always chasing after people who don't bother to take time and effort for you.
You are wise to not blame the new wife. She does sound respectful and decent, so I'm glad you are okay with being on good terms with her. Is she someone who might become an actual friend, aside from her relationship with the rest of your family? If she's nice and they're not, then you could choose to build a friendship with her while limiting your time with the family members who are dismissive of you.
The 'someone else' in this case hasn't got a consciousness or a life yet. But i get the sense that there is absolutely no point discussing this with you.