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That or something is mentally challenging him. Doesn’t sound like it’s his choice
Thank you for your advice! I don't really have anyone to talk to about these sort of things.
God these must be fake
We had a big argument because I did tell him I am scared getting pregnant because I don’t want to be hit with a bill unexpectedly after not working for a few months. He suggested I am insane for making up a hypothetical scenario in my head. No, we don’t have a prenup
If you don’t want to be there for him, don’t be. There’s no point faking it if you’re not feeling it. If you had real feelings for him, you wouldn’t think twice about driving straight over there. You’re not in a committed relationship so you have no obligation beyond what you’re prepared to offer.
THAT SAID… it’s possible that your refusal will lead to the end of the relationship or any further development on that front. But it sounds like you’ll be okay with that. And that is also okay.
Thanks for this, I’ll definitely be following my gut (once I know for sure what it’s trying to tell me)
I would not give him a chance. He's trying to buy your love and it seems to working way too well.
It seems like you want to be with him because of these markers of stability and material things. Which is not wanting to be with a person, it's wanting a circumstance and wanting to be spoiled. And if that's the case, if you just want someone to give you trips, cash, and gifts, then maybe get a sugar daddy. But don't think that a dude who is trying to buy your love after cheating on you is going to lead to a strong emotional connection and good relationship.
Additionally, the money and gifts are a red flag. Trying to buy a person's affection is not a healthy way to achieve intimacy, it's a fast track to try and tempt a person towards you.
You say you feel very attached to him since he was your first love. I'm not confident that you're seeing green flags, rather I think you may be excited at the prospect of restarting things with someone who cheated and being the recipient of nice things.
Lastly, I'll say I've been in this exact situation. My ex cheated on me with his ex gf. I took him back. Huge mistake. Even though his actions did end up changing, I could never fully trust him. And all of those root causes of cheating (impulsivity, lack of compassion, excitement seeking, lack of impulse control, desire for validation) stuck around. Additionally, he'd do the same thing with gift giving. It wasn't just thoughtful gifts, it was an attempt to buy my love and make me feel guilty if I left, and indebted to him.
It's largely a form of manipulation. Especially when it's done too soon. The fact that he sent you money when you were not dating shows to me that he's trying to create a sense of indebtedness and manipulate you into being with him. Very very manipulative behaviour. Even if he says the cash is with no strings attached, sorry but there are no free lunches. Especially from people who have an end in mind and use these gifts as the means to get there rather than authentic and gradual emotional connection and compatibility.
I think she'd be open to it if I suggested it, but I believe she'd immediately refuse if I said I wanted us to talk to somebody about her nephew and her inability to do the morale and right thing by going no contact. I'd have to wait until we're in front of a therapist and then bring it up. We have other issues of our own so therapy is still warranted.
Don't do anything. Calling it trauma is an overreaction but if that's how he really feels, he's going to have a tough life. Jobs will come and go. It's a part of life. He wasn't qualified for the job you needed. Go about your business as usual. If he prefers not to interact with you, then respect that and don't bother him when you see him in shared space.
Let her have her coffee and then have her read this post with the reply’s
Hey sweetie. Internet mom here. First. You don’t numb yourself. You feel the feelings because love can be wonderful. A relationship based on friendship can be the very best way to go. So. You tell your friend what you have told us. Then you’ll probably hold your breath until she responds. You do it in person. Definitely add in how amazing watching her turn into this incredible woman has been and how grateful you are for her friendship. And the part about getting lost in her amber eyes. Don’t forget that. Seriously having a best friend as your love is everything. You have to talk with her because there is so much to gain. I would recommend taking the romance slow. That’s just my gut but I trust it. As you said, it’s time for therapy so that you can offer her the best version of yourself. You tell that you have had the privilege of watching her go from a girl to an incredible woman who you have fallen in love with. Good luck. Let us know. I am really cheering for you and for this to work.
True, however, the point stands. If a person is with a bisexual partner, but they're insecure about their straight partners being best friends with someone of the opposite sex…. ?
I think that this is an insecurity that needs to be more closely examined. If someone wants to cheat, they're going to cheat regardless of who their best friend is.
40yo man playing a computer game with 12 yr olds. Perhaps your answer is hidden within the question.
Maybe not a first date thing, but definitely when things start to feel serious.
none whatsoever
For a first date. We are not dating. We are hanging out, snacking, watching movies, talking, usually having sex, and sometimes breakfast.
Why do you think this is a mistake? Cheating is not a mistake. Did he told you that this was just „a stupid mistake“? It wasn’t
Messages like „i don’t trust myself when we meet up“ after 1 month of your wedding is everything but good. You don’t know if they are going to meet when she’s here and you don’t even know if they meet behind your back when she was there. It’s obvious that this wasn’t a one time thing.
Does she use soap? Because it sounds like she does not. You don’t have to stay dating someone who does clean themselves.
We had a few incompatibilities in our relationship that would have made it hard to be together in the long run, but despite that, I feel like I do still care about him a lot so it makes it nude to let go. And we share a lot of friends at college, so we hang around each other most of the time because of that so it's very hot to avoid him.
Thank you for the advice !
I know this is hard to explain, but from my perspective, that connection felt older and stronger than the time it took to manifest. I also was under the impression “finding yourself” could entail things besides flirting with random men at beaches. Because it really does for me, I found myself in my 20s, and that didn't involve seeking women's attention.
I should also mention that he broke up with me. Not the other way around, but as I’ve been healing and realizing why he broke up with me because I wasn’t being serious/ show intentions that I wanted something long term.
Thank you and I was too for a moment I thought that was it I was going to crash it was a miracle I didn’t and I’m glad your wife has someone who truly cares at this point it’s obvious he doesn’t care between the way he reacted to his lack of communication to his no effort what so ever to check on me since
No fucking sympathy let alone advice for a disgusting pedo
Yes. It’s a two yes, one no situation. Your No was very clear.
Sorry OP, but of course it’s for your body. He’s been waiting since first meeting you at 17. Doesn’t it make you wonder why he doesn’t date girls his own age? This won’t be a forever thing. If the sex is good just enjoy it but please make sure and live your life-your soon to be in your 20’s and that is such a great decade and you shouldn’t be with some guy long-term that is probably only dating you because he likes them young.
Happy cake day!
It's easy to be there for a partner when things are good. But the indicator of a healthy relationship is whether they can support you during hard times.
I had to double-check your ages because this is a problem I expect from a 20 year old, not someone who is 35. The bottom line is that he seems unwilling/incapable of working on this. I think you should decide what to do under the assumption that he won't change. Are you ok with a partner who cannot give you the most basic emotional support?
Lawyer up before you do anything. You’ve done nothing wrong here. You told him and he handled it like a coward. Give him the minimum you’re required to give and get child support if you can.
It sounds like you’ve been telling him you don’t want to be strung along, and he’s been telling you that he wants a relationship with you.
I’m confused as to why you are upset or mad. He said he liked you, so you know he does, but your reply was a little too casual. “Hope things are good with you.” After he said “it’s now or never”… tbh he probably is completely confused by you because your self described behavior actually is kind of wishy washy, so at the moment he’s probably more concerned about the difficulty in just trying to get to square one with you that he isn’t sure if you are emotionally stable or not, after he just got out of a relationship that was probably messy.
She would, it was I was just doing it zero times and making her feel undesirable. This just wasn't the case. I basically had lost myself.
Finally some good advice.
Why does she suddenly want to add you to the house? It doesn’t sound at all like either of you is serious enough to feel like this is a forever relationship. You didn’t even mention loving her.
I know it sounds stupid that's why I want to make a plan
I meant not platonic as in there is no close friendship, or love. I always take platonic relationships to be a little emotionally intimate?
There are plenty of people in Chicago who could use the help. I don’t care if he lives in a fucking Gold Coast mansion, within a mile, someone is in need. If he wants to help someone, it isn’t that hard. If he wants to waste the food, that’s his right but recognize the type of person you are involved with.