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Closure doesn't require anybody but yourself. That you need closure from other people is a myth. You're likely confusing the need to confront the lie with closure, they are not the same thing. Walk away and give yourself closure on this part of your life.
Where am I defending him? Perhaps your brain isn't fully developed enough to notice that I'm not.
I'm going to get downvoted for this but speaking from experience, just because people think the baby looks like the father doesn't mean a baby is his.
I had a girl and her family say a baby was mine and looked just like me, and luckily enough I was smart enough to do a DNA test and found out I wasn't the father.
Do the DNA for him and if he is the father then great, if not then go from there.
It will obviously ease everyone's minds
Yea okay. Act innocent. You very easily could have told him “dont worry its just nausea, theres no way to know if im pregnant yet” instead of whatever you told him to make him freak out about becoming a parent.
> I don’t know what I’ve done that’s so wrong that she’s not speaking to me.
You completely stopped her from communicating to you and now you're surprised that she doesn't want to communicate with you? Apologise. Holy shit, it's comparable to slamming the door in her face imo.
Also why would you let your mother help out with the nursery without running it by your wife? It's the room she's decorating, the room she has a vision for, why was she not informed or asked especially when some details were altered??
This situation and the lead up to it paints you as inconsiderate imo. The fact that you know your wife has a hard(er) time speaking as opposed to typing yet can't understand what you did wrong by blocking her, as if you're a child sticking your fingers into your ears, is mind boggling. I'm sorry that this isn't really advice, but please apologise and reflect on why you thought your actions were appropriate when they disrespected your wife and soon-to-be-mother of your child.
Thank you. ❤️?
Check the size. Maybe he just likes to crossdress? Barring that, yeah he's playing you.
If replacing an IUD was too expensive, how does another child fit into your budget?
Birth control isn’t solely your responsibility, but neither of you should be surprised to be in this situation after having a bunch of unprotected sex. I’m sorry that you’re not getting the support that you want, but I think your partner’s attitude is indicative of his disinterest in having another child. You should have a frank conversation about that ASAP.
Am i asking too much? When he does help i tell him thank you and how much i appreciate the help. No matter how small the task is. He comes and goes as he pleases with no regard for the impact it makes on my daily life, or our daughters.
No, you’re not asking too much. He’s being a selfish jerk. He has both you and his mom to take care of him.
Just get an attorney. You’ve tried for years to make the relationship better. You confronting him now will not change him.
Make your point by changing the locks and not giving him a key.
He’s telling you this is who he is.
Who he is is not what you want or need. Time to end it and find someone who you are more compatible with.
I agree and I do it’s just a matter of when it happens ya know it’s something she doesn’t really do because she expresses she’s to nervous and knows she should
Got to be a bit realistic here. Your husband is net negative in terms of $. He’s also got a gambling problem if he’s in on AMC.
this. and imagine if they break up after all that?
What’s going on in his head?
He had a girlfriend who broke up with him. His self esteem hit a snag when that happened. He reached out to you to help you lick his wounds.
None of this means that you’re the one for him. None of this means that he’s choosing you. In fact, none of this is actually about you.
I totally agree with you here. We absolutely don't have to go so I guess that solves the issue. They can still have a lovely time and we can see them at a different time in a different setting.
You didn't do anything wrong. You simply told her something she didn't want to hear, and she's lashing out at you for it.
Nah you want evidence bc if she starts trying to poison mutual friends against OP or make shit up about him to family/in general he can slap it down in black and white and prove who the POS actually is. Cheaters are also liars, you really think a cheater won't try to twist it so they're the victim? Bc 90% of the time they do.
Poor mental health isn't an excuse for shitty behaviour. Have you tried writing down what you get from the relationship? I know that when someone is upset they tend to focus on bad points, so try considering what you're getting back in return, but try to think of it in a more analytical way. Does he make you feel safe? Good about yourself? Can you lean on him at your worst? What does he contribute? Etc…
I think once you examine that you might realise that some of the more important aspects of the relationship are not good. I noticed you defended him in other comments and that makes sense, I get it, it's someone who you've given so much to, but would you want to continue living like this for the next 10 years?
It doesn't seem like you wanted to hear what many tried to say, but if my friend told me what you wrote down I would really encourage her to end it, it won't be easy (who knows, maybe you'll even feel more liberated), but I'm sure you'll get by more than fine.
I wish you a good and fast recovery and good luck figuring things out, OP!
I would still recommend asking, both for your peace of mind and to gauge if it's a deal breaker. Because if it's really something unrealistic as he says then you can't really compare yourself as it's highly unlikely someone else would both match that fetish AND be interested in him.
the likelihood that this fetish is in the domain of Rule 34 is fairly high.
It sounds like partner offered her another outlet like Reddit which I think is a good idea. He’s not telling her not to get outside opinions, he just doesn’t want his relationship with her mom and friends to be skewed from her over sharing.
If he’s being a controlling asshole Reddit will still absolutely tell her.
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I (26M) was invited at the end of January to go to a football game at the end of February. I checked with my gf (24F) if it was okay for me to go which said it was, now she is threatening to leave me if I go because she doesn’t like football and sees it as me abandoning her when I have turned down loads of opportunities to go football before and have prioritised her above everything, all I’ve asked for is this one day and she is acting like this. Any advice?
I do understand that you were traumatized, and I believe your parents should have handled that differently. If they never came to your games, they are certainly the AH, but if they just missed some games, or weren’t always at home when you were old enough to spend a few hours by yourself, then I think it’s fair to say that even parents need (and have a right to) some time to themselves on a regular basis, as long as the kids are safe and have what they need.
And it’s none of the kid‘s business what the parents do in bed – as long as the parents are happy with what they are doing, AND they are careful enough to not let their child walk in on them.
I mean, this obviously isn’t about polyamory. I know that’s what you’re blaming it on, but from the sound of it, it seems like your pretend just didn’t want to be parents. If it wasn’t sleeping with other people it would have been going to concerts and then you’d hate concerts or going on vacations and then you’d hate vacations. Separating the feelings from the false thing you’re blaming them on is the first step to identifying the actual issue and healing
You don’t want to say what he did, and that’s fine, but no one can really give you sound advice based upon the info you’ve given.
“Stupid” and “dangerous” is too huge of a category. Stupid and potentially dangerous and illegal might be something as simple as driving recklessly at over 100mph, or it might be something like setting someone’s house on fire when they weren’t at home.
In the first case, they would need to serve their punishment, take some classes on safety, etc. In the second case, you’re talking about an arsonist who might go on to do worse things once released.
I’m not suggesting it’s either of these things. I’m saying it’s impossible to give you any advice without knowing at least a bit about what he did.
He cheated while you were sick. Don’t get passed it. You won’t. You will always worry if he’s cheating again. He’s not worth anything. Get child support and custody figured out and leave this man for good and live a happy life and find someone worth your time.
I am so sick of women getting a pass for cheating because of their hormones or some ridiculous bullshit like that.
Look, I am in no way condoning this woman's infidelity, but PPD is not the same as “because of their hormones.” it is a serious medical condition that is extremely dangerous and very much can make people do things they would never normally do.
Let's also not forget she left her CHILD.
She probably genuinely thought that her husband and child were better off without her. At that moment, it was probably objectively true as well. She having have been having homicidal thoughts (which is not unusual for PPD), and removing herself in that case truly would have been the right thing to do, (even if her execution of that action is bad.)
(but when a man cheats he's just shit, no valid “reasons”)
If a man had a brain tumour that affecting his personality, that would in fact be a valid reason for him to have cheated, and almost everyone would agree with that. This is often the same. There are in fact medical reasons that justify cheating for all genders.
Anyway, unless you are a medical doctor who is professionally familiar with Postpartum depression, anxiety and psychosis, you aren't really in any place to say whether or not it is an excuse for any of her behaviour or not.
Possible you can try a different birth control that won’t affect your sex drive as much. It might take some trial and error tho. Would talk to your doctor about it
I told him that we chat almost everyday but he doesn’t care at all
She hasn’t brought it up and I haven’t talked to her about this yet. I’ve been considering it. Our sex life is pretty dead now compared to how it used to be and she has definitely mentioned that a couple times.
It’s a valid reason to end a relationship. She’s not meeting your needs. It will become a dead bedroom, once her charity leaves. What changed? Have you asked her?
Dude. OP was struggling with OCD and clearly knew on some level already that this isn't proportionate or okay.
What a terrible thing to say to someone in a mental health crisis.
So personally I'd detach completely, but from what you've said about mutual friends and stuff, my one step lower suggestion is switching this guy to pure acquaintance status. He is now a friend of your friends, but not your friend directly. No more one on one plans, no more being alone with him in any capacity. Other people invite him places, you do not. Do you have any trusted friends who think he's creepy? Loop those people into what's happening. You can do a slow fade (saying no or cancelling plans, attending things you know he'll be at only sporadically and not responding when he asks if you'll be there, etc.), or you can rip off the bandaid, but gauge his reaction and act accordingly.
This part is going to be too much true crime and not knowing this kid at all:
If people are going home early, you leave. He is never your ride. You are never his ride. He doesn't walk you home, you don't walk him home. You say hi at a party, but never converse with him solo. Do not give him new information about you (grey rock). If you have roommates that he is friends with and they might host him while you're there, get a lock for your door or nope out. I know some of this is going to sound extreme, and it probably is, but far too many people have been stalked or worse when trying to cut off people that very badly want to date them, so I would err on the side of caution. Keep your head on a swivel and if he tries to corner you anywhere – get really loud. There is no end date for this – he's been trying to date you for 4 years, I wouldn't let my guard down for another 4 at minimum.
You are not wrong. Can you go home to your parents?
You can’t set rules. You can’t make your gf do anything she doesn’t want to do. While it’s nice and all that she’s loyal to her friend, the fact of the matter is people are judged by the company they keep. If nothing else, your gf is likely complicit in terms of being her friend’s cover story for the bf that’s getting cheated on. Not a great look, tbh.
I would always say that you need to provide your own contraception unless you are definitely willing to accept the potential results of your partner's contraception efforts failing.
Even in situations where you 100% trust your partner to be taking contraception, and to be taking it properly, if you go in raw then you have to be willing to accept the consequences.
Yes, the business as it is now is worth something- in ten years- who knows? Better he buys her out now.
He should get over it and doing something to the guy isn’t going to make him feel better. But still, I stand by what I said. Knowingly sleeping with someone else’s partner is not a neutral or innocent act. It is also a stain on your character. It is not nothing.
I guess. My friend says in her experience, when she brought it up with her ex it didn’t do anything. It just made them want to hide it more or they get defensive. Im more just so put off by it and grossed out I don’t even want to talk to him about it and exacerbate the matter. I just feel like shutting down
Changing your appearance is a tell tale sign of cheating, regardless of the person's sex
If after 3 years she doesn’t believe you that’s a lost cause. Without trust a relationship has no future.
You can break up first or record him secretly and then break up.
But a true partnership doesn’t require proof. If my husband said that some friend of mine said unbelievable shit I would believe him and ask my friend if they are going through something out of concern, because it would be worrying if after 20 years they were behaving so out of character.
Your boyfriend is telling you a lot about his thought process and you need to listen. He is telling you the following: 1. If you are ever sexually harassed or assaulted he will blame you. 2. He sexualizes other women he sees who are just going about their lives, and he thinks that’s fine. 3. He will be sexually inappropriate with another woman if he hasn’t yet, and he will place all the blame on her.