Yeah, that doesn't work on me as I don't really believe 'sin' is a thing (bonus to not being religious, I suppose)
There are things I feel are morally wrong, and I absolutely don't spend any amount of time with people that are like that (murderers, abusers, thieves, general AHs, etc)
I could just tell him I wasn’t available for his abuse and walk away. When I tried that he got more and more unhinged and I ended up with a two year restraining order on him
this is similar to what happened to me. i started standing up for myself, and he got SO much worse. it actually became scary, instead of just really hurtful and damaging. he stalked me on and off for years until I moved to a new state 10 years ago.
i don't think i was even “smart” when going to individual therapy. i was so broken and in so much pain and he was constantly telling me that it was my mental issues causing him to abuse me. so i went to therapy so i could get better, and so he would be nicer. isn't that sad? 🙁
ugh, sorry, that's a lot. i promise i'm in a much better place now, it feels like a lifetime and a half ago. sending love to you and your babies!
This is not a big deal and you're overthinking it. Out of curiosity, do you have any issues with OCD?
Yeah, that doesn't work on me as I don't really believe 'sin' is a thing (bonus to not being religious, I suppose)
There are things I feel are morally wrong, and I absolutely don't spend any amount of time with people that are like that (murderers, abusers, thieves, general AHs, etc)
I could just tell him I wasn’t available for his abuse and walk away. When I tried that he got more and more unhinged and I ended up with a two year restraining order on him
this is similar to what happened to me. i started standing up for myself, and he got SO much worse. it actually became scary, instead of just really hurtful and damaging. he stalked me on and off for years until I moved to a new state 10 years ago.
i don't think i was even “smart” when going to individual therapy. i was so broken and in so much pain and he was constantly telling me that it was my mental issues causing him to abuse me. so i went to therapy so i could get better, and so he would be nicer. isn't that sad? 🙁
ugh, sorry, that's a lot. i promise i'm in a much better place now, it feels like a lifetime and a half ago. sending love to you and your babies!