I’m sure she could give him privacy. I really don’t think your objections to the logistics make much sense. What DOES make sense to me is your objection to the fact that he feels ok going on a fun trip. You want him to be sad about the loss of your pregnancy, just like you are! That’s totally fair. It sounds like he’s not mourning this loss in the way you are, and he’s reacting callously to you when you ask for more support. That’s the real problem.
Are you really surprised that her parents aren’t happy that a thirty year old man is dating their teenage daughter? Come on. I would be mortified too. She is barely out of high school! You are far too old for her, and getting into a situation where she carries on seeing you against her parents wishes will only end in tears.
I mean, she has been deceiving him for the entirety of their marriage.
I’m sure she could give him privacy. I really don’t think your objections to the logistics make much sense. What DOES make sense to me is your objection to the fact that he feels ok going on a fun trip. You want him to be sad about the loss of your pregnancy, just like you are! That’s totally fair. It sounds like he’s not mourning this loss in the way you are, and he’s reacting callously to you when you ask for more support. That’s the real problem.
Are you really surprised that her parents aren’t happy that a thirty year old man is dating their teenage daughter? Come on. I would be mortified too. She is barely out of high school! You are far too old for her, and getting into a situation where she carries on seeing you against her parents wishes will only end in tears.