He sounds pathetic and obviously isn't attracted to you. If someone has to force attraction, either physical or intellectual, then they're not worth it.
Breakup probably isn't the right word as it doesn't even sound like you were ever together. Just cut ties and find someone with whom you click at least 70% after your first meetups.
Perhaps it is time to say I would rather adjust my life to your absence then to adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect
He sounds pathetic and obviously isn't attracted to you. If someone has to force attraction, either physical or intellectual, then they're not worth it.
Breakup probably isn't the right word as it doesn't even sound like you were ever together. Just cut ties and find someone with whom you click at least 70% after your first meetups.