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1. Hello /u/Ok-Committee-9890,

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2. “she had a big meltdown with tears and continued to argue” – you never continue to argue with someone who is making a scene and behaving like a baby. Her reactions are not normal, she doesn't have the reason to feel like that. Understand that she needs professional help and remove yourself from the situation until she's behaving like an adult.

   “rude to me, I called her out for it, saying it was hurtful, and I got screamed at to shut my mouth as I was trying to explain why” – you can't explain anything to her. Understand that you can't reason with an unreasonable person! Don't even try it! Remember that if you wrestle with a pig you'll only get dirty and pig will love it!

   Try telling her that you are being disrespected and just leave. Don't explain to her why you feel the way you do, don't try to make her understand what she's doing wrong, don't try …

   Using gray rock method, silent treatment, stonewalling is the best that you can do with her. It's impossible to make her understand anything, she can lie, pretend to understand if she wants to make peace because she's needs you in the near future but if she doesn't need anything you will somehow apologize to her for feeling hurt when “obviously you shouldn't feel hurt, you are too sensitive, you don't understand the situation”.. crazy making!

   Your parents accepted her behaviour but you can either accept it (she's sick) and try not to “upset her” by setting some boundaries or you should set boundaries and remove yourself every time she acts like an idiot.

   Here are basic things NOT to do with someone like her:

   DON'T:

   tell them what's acceptable behavior in order to be in your life

   continue to engage them in conversation (argue in circles)

   continuously allow them to bait you into arguments

   fail to address when they damage your property

   defend your boundaries, feelings, or emotions to them

   entertain their gossip and instigating.

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