Maybe his kink is rather extreme for his own taste, and he does not feel safe disclosing the extent of it to you. He may be into heavy subbing if you found an electric device, rope, and chastity cage. I am not sure if ‘confrontation’ is the right mindset to enter the discussion.
Tell him about your fears that he will use the items to restrain you against your will and see where the discussion goes. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s him, who dreams of being restrained.
I was cleaning out my desk drawer at work and found some condoms. They had been bundled with some candy which I ate and tossed the condoms in the drawer some months back.
I plan to get a second job, but it is hard when i don't have a car.
Maybe his kink is rather extreme for his own taste, and he does not feel safe disclosing the extent of it to you. He may be into heavy subbing if you found an electric device, rope, and chastity cage. I am not sure if ‘confrontation’ is the right mindset to enter the discussion.
Tell him about your fears that he will use the items to restrain you against your will and see where the discussion goes. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s him, who dreams of being restrained.
Tigers don't change their stripes, toadstools don't change their spots.
If you move on before you heal you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you. Way too fast.
Did you ask why they don't want you in their group?
I was cleaning out my desk drawer at work and found some condoms. They had been bundled with some candy which I ate and tossed the condoms in the drawer some months back.