I do have insecurities, I try to understand myself the best as possible. For example, I'm insecure about the way I usually get overexited about small things, and I fear that I annoy people with so. We all do have so and so, I truly believe no human lives without any insecurities, only denial.
I also believe, that you are wrong in the fact that such preference is fully and utterly an insecurity. If a person heavily binds love with sex, a higher bodycount may to them simply make another person incompatible, with no shame involved. I know multiple men, with partners, that feels this. I also know multiple women, including my own girlfriend.
Calling a preference people has an “insecurity” just because you arent included in so, seems rather… insecure.
I do have insecurities, I try to understand myself the best as possible. For example, I'm insecure about the way I usually get overexited about small things, and I fear that I annoy people with so. We all do have so and so, I truly believe no human lives without any insecurities, only denial.
I also believe, that you are wrong in the fact that such preference is fully and utterly an insecurity. If a person heavily binds love with sex, a higher bodycount may to them simply make another person incompatible, with no shame involved. I know multiple men, with partners, that feels this. I also know multiple women, including my own girlfriend.
Calling a preference people has an “insecurity” just because you arent included in so, seems rather… insecure.