Actually you shouldnt. You are just the girlfriend and that’s your only job here. Talking occasionally about things you might wonder about is one thing. Pulling the parent aside at every turn to voice your issue and ask they correct it is not ok. You two arent married or coparenting. You should instead defer to their father and if you just dont like the situation leave
Move on he’s not for you
Yes his ex was part of the group I did ask but he just said he didn't know and couldn't answer me
Actually you shouldnt. You are just the girlfriend and that’s your only job here. Talking occasionally about things you might wonder about is one thing. Pulling the parent aside at every turn to voice your issue and ask they correct it is not ok. You two arent married or coparenting. You should instead defer to their father and if you just dont like the situation leave