Same old story I'm afraid, reality is FAR different than what we hope it will be. She was cool with your changes, then when you went to change further she may have realised that it's too much for her but she's finding it far too difficult to express. You have to choose what's best for you because, assuming she carries on as you've described her here, she may just keep getting less and less tolerant of your changes.
This is GREAT info! Thanks so much for taking the time to send it to me. Very kind of you.
Same old story I'm afraid, reality is FAR different than what we hope it will be. She was cool with your changes, then when you went to change further she may have realised that it's too much for her but she's finding it far too difficult to express. You have to choose what's best for you because, assuming she carries on as you've described her here, she may just keep getting less and less tolerant of your changes.