Violeta 18 online sex cams for YOU!
11K Share
Make me squirt [340 tokens remaining]
Related
More videos 32K
32K
3K
32K
2K
8K
13K
34K
5K
5K
9K
20K
10K
31K
7K
36 thoughts on “Violeta 18 online sex cams for YOU!”
Comments
This could be avoided by dating someone who isn’t an emotionally stunted jerk that resorts to freaking out over something so minor. If they really don’t like you sticking out your tongue at them…fine, but have a normal and rational conversation about it.
I always tell them that if they want something casual tell me, if they want something serious tell me.
Just because you tell them that doesn’t mean they know themselves well enough or are capable of trusting you enough to be honest, ie they’re not emotionally available, even if they wish they were or are trying to be.
So of course therapy can help, but something you can do yourself is google how to tell if someone is trustworthy and how to tell if they’re emotionally available. Read articles from reputable sources and put together a list that speaks to your values and boundaries, the strongest values and boundaries you have now are often what you got the least of or what hurt you the most in the past. Just keep in mind no one’s perfect so people aren’t going to get everything right and if you expect these things from others you need to do them yourself.
That said, once you have the list, it can do three things for you. One, help you better identify behaviors of yours, of others or both that are untrustworthy or undermine trust from the get go, so you can work on those issues directly or end things before you get in too deep. Two, it can help reassure you or others or both where you can trust each other by highlighting already present trustworthy behaviors. And three, the more you use and refine the list, the more the information will become second nature, such that in time you won’t need it. I also have a genetic list that can help get you started. If that interests you, let me know and I’ll send it your way.
Leave. You have absolutely zero right to talk her into going through 9 months of hell for something she doesn't even want.
So he doesn't want to see you cause he can't use you for sex. Wow. You would think if he cared about you he might have missed you and wanted to see you, obviously that's not the case. I'd nope out of that shit “relationship” real fast.
u/emberplu, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
u/applesandoranges36, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Hello /u/peaches2593,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Wow. Run.
He is blame shifting and gas lighting you into believing you are irrational. It is typical deflection mechanism for cheaters.
He was cheating. He gave you reason to suspect. And you confirmed your suspicions.
Also, marriage doesn't entitle people to secret affairs and cheating. This guy is who would decide to pull the plug and get your life insurance.
e has $ and always gifts me a lot of things.
Love bombing is a red flag…. so he's trying to manipulate you by giving you gifts constantly? He's trying to buy your love, he hopes that you're inexperienced/naive enough to not realise it, and to ignore the red flags.
He did say he had a rough past but it’s related to family issues.
So how comes he's not in therapy, working on himself, and dating people his age? Why be involved with a naive teenager?
If you don’t show you feel bad for making a mistake in the past, no one’s going to believe you that you’ll make a better decision in the future
Thats their issue, not mine. People can learn from mistakes without having to feel shameful or bad about them. Not everyone has to be so emotional over making a mistake.
Who you going to believe is going to fix a mistake, someone who gives excuses for it, or someone who shows they feel bad?
I wasn't making excuses. I was telling him the objective facts. The lie was saying I was wasted drunk. Now you don't believe me, but that's not really my issue. So, to answer your question, I'd try and find the objective facts and look at those. If a person swears they aren't lying, I like to give them the benefit of the doubt. People don't all behave the same or show guilt in the same way.
So I feel guilty? A little bit. It's been months, so not really. I probably felt guilty at the time. Do I feel remorseful? No.
Basically everyone freaks out at some point before they get married. It’s normal.
But what you are listing here is serious incompatibility. Throw out the fact that he doesn’t seem to listen to you or respect you, you do NOT have the same wants in terms of kids and that’s going to lead to big issues in the future.
Knowing those dates is the BARE MINIMUM. If he struggles that much, he’s old enough to make a calendar reminder on his phone. He’s showing you he cares more about video games than your anniversaries.
Weaponized incompetence. This will only get worse.
The sex. Again he’s showing to you that he doesn’t listen to you or respect you. He does not care about your pleasure at all.
Does he know you at all? He doesn’t even listen to your best friend about your wants for a proposal and then ignores your ring wants. You’re supposed to wear that thing all the time and he didn’t even both to get one you like.
Again the kid thing. This will not end well. He still wants kids and you do not. One of you will “give in” or sacrifice your wants and end up resenting each other and the possible child.
I know this is incredibly difficult. You’ve built a life with this person and you do seem to love him. But he’s showing you again and again that he does not respect you, love you, listen to you, or really care about you. Do not settle. You deserve more than this and far more than the bare minimum.
What you are trying to do is rationalise having sex with a guy because you want to. What you need to do is accept that the relationship is over and get a divorce. You aren't invested emotionally in it, you don't even want to be. You know that this cheating could blow up the relationship, and are willing to do it anyway. Which says you don't value it. So why carry on with this charade?
Cheating is a scummy thing to do to anyone. No one deserves to be cheated on. You need to be honest with yourself, and your husband. And get a divorce.
This is horrible advice, you should def talk first to your SO about this stuff before making changes
There comes a point where you just have to put that – the thought of what she “may” do – aside.
I have to say that there is a huge amount of emotional blackmail going on here from her side and realistically, you have seen whether you stay or go seems to matter not to her overall mental state. She has her own agency to whatever she does but you leaving or walking away from her will have no effect.
There is a pretty good chance that she'll find someone else to inflict herself upon.
More often than not though, suicidal people do not telegraph their actions the way that she has been doing. Her actions though fall fairly firmly into the realms of emotional manipulation.
I think the best thing to do is to talk to a professional. People cheat on people they love for a whole host of reasons.
Maybe you need the external validation. That need for external validation will get satisfy itself but it can leave your life in ruin. Finding why you need that and talking it through could improve your mental health.
Don't unburden yourself on your husband. Talk to someone before this hurts him and you.
Tell her you have to go to the police, what follows will reveal the truth
Not a jab or anything, legitimately curious- have you ever gone to couples therapy yourself? I frequently hear recommendations to go to therapy on this subreddit but having seen therapy fail multiple times as an expensive waste of time that at best didn't make things worse I'm a bit uncomfortable with how the default answer to any issue on Reddit seems to be therapy.
This is “run for the hills” serious.
Get out while you still can.
I suggest you send more time with her in places where these aggressive men are less likely to frequent.
Men approaching a woman with a date is outrageous (not normal) behavior.
sounds to me like you are digging for problems
the cookie analogy is perfectly valid imo
you are making this far more complicated than it needs to be
do you truly believe your husband AND sister would betray you like this? you need answers before coming to a decision but you need space to make it.
You didn’t over react. You REACTED. You wouldn’t have pushed him away if he didn’t violate your body.
Especially if he knows full well about your history, he actively used your history to get a response out of you. He may not like the response he got, but the entire interaction was caused by his actions. Not yours.
You get that, right?
I get the impression from your wording that you and your boyfriend haven't actually talked about this a whole lot, but aving open and non-judgemental conversations about the topic should really be the first step.
You can't just sit around and wait, hoping that things will eventually magically resolve themselves. You need to take the bull by its horns and open up about how you're feeling.
If your boyfriend struggles to initiate because he has low self-confidence or low self-esteem, what is he doing to work on that? Is that something you can help him with and, if yes, how so?
If you feel unattractive and like he doesn't want you, what are some ways he could make you feel differently? Could he perhaps do more of different non-sexual things to reassure you that he still wants you even when your sex life is not as vibrant as you'd ideally like?
You DO need therapy.
You told your girlfriend, “You’ll ALWAYS be in second place.” Who the hell wants to hear that? In reality, it’s third place, because I assume you put your kids first.
I don’t believe this is a one-off. You say you’ve been holding in your feelings for “so long.” I think this is just the beginning.
You were also horribly cruel to Claire, accusing her of not missing her late husband.
Get help.
Wow spineless. If she will cheat with one behind your back she would have cheated with several. She clearly zero respect for you, and sees you as stability only.
You should add to your post that you have experience with anal, used to do it often, and thoroughly enjoyed it until it started causing pain (did you ever go to the doctor for that, if you didn't you should because it could be something fixable, even if it isn't you still should be seen for this as it could be something that needs attention-we only have the one body ya know, we have to take care of it. Plus, if you loved anal, and there was a chance you could do it again because the pain was gone, wouldn't you want to know)? By leaving this information out it's giving the impression that you have no idea how anal works and seriously believe this could have been an accident not only once, but twice. As for the guy, you have to decide if you can trust someone you KNOW in your heart of hearts is lying about something incredibly intimate. Does he know you had anal experience? Because if he didn't, and rammed himself into what he believed to be an untouched backdoor, twice, then he's not even worth a phone call when you leave him
Well it's possible he made a pass at her and she shot him down so now she's removing herself from the situation. You could go talk to her and ask Point Blank if he said something or was trying to sleep with her.
What?
The jewellery I do have (that I haven’t lost) is cheap and easily replaceable.”
The jewellery I do have (that I haven’t lost) is cheap and easily replaceable.” wellery I do have (that I haven’t lost) is cheap and easily replaceable.” The jewellery I do have (that I haven’t lost) is cheap and easily replaceable.” wellery I do have (that I haven’t lost) is cheap and easily replaceable.”
This isn’t trust issues. My partner and I intend to always keep our finances separate. We trust each other, we just feel it’s important to be able to make individual choices about our income.
If you pay the rent you make the rules
Ooooo ok
Is it safe to say you want to spend more with him?
Refocus whatever time spent on this other person on your marriage.
I want to become an art curator and travel the world and run museum to share my love of art and history. I want to experience all of the things other people have done
If your fiancé was 'Mr Right', he would have supported you in those endeavours. He doesn't, so he isn't.
Do NOT get married to this guy!
It sounds like he wants you to be more invested in the relationship than him and to have that power over you. When he realized you aren’t wrapped up in him, he thought dangling a family and baby would manipulate you.
It’s time to break up.
Btw, have you ever been to his place? It sounds like his ‘hobby’ is his other gf.