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There’s questions on this, does the 13F babysit the 3M? Does she contribute to household chores. Is she a functional member of the family? You can’t just ignore her
This feels like a weird creative writing excercise
You are being used physically only. Shut that down and you will see who the real he is
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Tell that to people who said it was grooming on that post, not me.
Yeah, I hate when that stuff gets added in replies but not to the original post.
But then OP admitted they've been together for almost 5 years and his gf barely knows his mom. There's more to worry about hear than an AA ceremony.
As I said, even if it’s achieved through UV lamps it’s still natural as it’s physiological.
Also, why is it so outraging if she tans? and don’t forget that many populations in Asia, even within the same ethnic group, have various skin tones, and they have completely different relationship with the color of their skin than Americans. Since she’s from another culture that sees all of this VERY differently, isn’t this just a way to invalidate her feelings/culture/perception and stomp on it with their (and yours apparently) all-American opinion?
What the sensibility of Americans is sacred but others are just chopped liver?
Yup gg. People with BPD who don't treat it, are a danger to society. Unfortunately they have little to no control over when they have a manic episode. The problem is you can only ever blame the disease not the person potentially being manipulative.
It is a horrible disease even for those who do successfully manage to online a full life with it.
Thanks, man I really appreciate that. You have no idea how helpful it is to hear this from someone outside of my family. I'm not the first and I won't be the last and all that…
You were having the most passionate sex of your life and then you yelled out “Mommy!” while finishing? And you're just expecting us to believe it was totally random?
Totally random? No, probably not. But the brain gets its wires crossed all the time. And sometimes the wrong word comes out. When you were in school, haven't you every accidentally called your Teacher “Mom” or “Dad”? Its not “totally random.” Your brain just pulled a word from the “authority figure” section. Your primary authority figures are your parents. You went to call another authority figure, your teacher, and accidentally pulled the wrong word.
In this scenario its completely reasonable to think he loves his GF. He loves his Mom (a different type of love, but still an extreme emotion). His brain just pulled a word from the “I love this person” section and it happened to be Mommy.
Cancel/postpone the wedding plans.
Finish up the current freelance project and do not take on another one.
Start exercising immediately and then add more time when the current projects ramp up.
Next time he needs help with his work… say “sorry I don't have time” OR “sorry I'm too tired right now” OR ” sorry, I have a headache” OR “sorry, you're a fucking adult and need to sort out yoir own job. If you need help ask your boss because this is my home time.”
If you enjoy doing the cooking then continue BUT tell him that if this relationship is going to proceed you need him helping out as sous chef and dishwasher at least 3 nights a week, effective immediately.
My husband does 95% of our family cooking despite working all day in finance. He is 100% self taught. Reads books and watches videos. It is literally just practice.
Stop doing all the cleaning. Make a chore chart and split EVERYTHING 50/50 and cooking is part of that 50.
Who cares if he doesn't do something perfectly. Let it go. It is his job… don't fall for deliberate incompetence.
This guy is LITERALLY playing videogames while you Mom for him.
HE IS NOT READY TO BE A LIFE PARTNER. HE ISN'T EVEN ADULTING.
You are his mother. Your kid is playing videogames while you cook and clean AND bring home the bigger paycheck.
When I was single and dating I came up with a rule… don't date anyone who hasn't lived on their own for at least a year first.
You're dating a manchild.
I'm sorry, but if you marry this guy in his current state you'll be divorced soon after. He will not be ready for marriage for a AT LEAST a couple of years.
He doesn't even respect you enough to pull half of his weight in your relationship. Like holy fuck, he's proud he did the dishes ONCE??
My 10 yr old boy does more around the house than your potential life partner.
Hell no!
Honestly, there can be many factors that are affecting him.
1.) He could be losing interest in the relationship, where you and him are more like roommates instead of a couple.
2.) The stress and demand could be causing him to not have any interest. He could also be depressed so this point would count for any mental factors.
3.) He could be having a personal problem that he's uncomfortable talking to you about. (ED)
I personally would recommend spending some time with him, maybe taking a day off when he has some free time, and having a good time with him. Do something you know he would like that involves you being together. Pay attention to the vibes, it's easy to write off signs of people losing interest as them just having a tough time. But at some point, if you aren't feeling “loved” then you need to have a serious conversation.
TIL rich people like to role play poor.
A good friend of mine had a sister who was SAd but she was not. She was neglected and physically abused. She certainly experienced trauma but absolutely does not take her sisters on as her own.
Your fiancée may have some valid processing of her own to do, but it sounds like she is far from doing it in a healthy, respectful, or even simply non damaging to others kind of a way. Your decision to end the relationship is a good one.
My own toxic ex started reaching out to any friends of mine that he had contact information for with a woe is me/how could she/I’m so suicidal cycle of communication. First time I broke things off it sucked me back in (I had previously lost 2 friends to suicide, which he knew).
The second time I broke things off I was ready for it. When people reached out to let me know he was contacting them, I provided contact information for area crisis services to pass along if they were concerned about his safety but explained I was maintaining a boundary of not responding myself, because I can’t be responsible for his behavior anymore. Most people were understanding.
Yes, after all the advices I will hire a PI, save all the evidence and then confront him
What is the point?
His reasons are ridiculous. Of course he doesn’t want them knowing.
Staying with him is agreeing to this broken thinking. One day it will impact you, from other irresponsible thinking. Not to mention you inheriting this debt of luxury.
You’re both too young to be in such an unsatisfying relationship. It sounds like you aren’t satisfied sexually and it’s percolating into other aspects of the relationship (for example, your self worth).
Honestly he needs to either 1.) acknowledge his problem and work on it OR 2.) you need to leave and do you, eventually finding yourself someone who actively cherishes you and makes you feel like they’re into you. Not randoms on the internet.
I dated someone with an actual porn addiction for a few years and it was terrible. I was already a slim person with slightly bigger boobs for my size, but because of his fantasy (extremely thin, frail, small chested) he always told me that he wanted me to look like them and that I was overweight. I was literally 5 foot and 110-115 lbs. Not everyone will do this and compare you to their fantasy, but beware of this… you are awesome in your own way! I’m so glad I realized that after I ended things.
before she moves out PROTECT YOUR PARENTAL RIGHTS. You need to go to court and get your 50/50 split and all legal issues ironed out now. It’s not personal, it’s best for your kid to have it all set straight. You don’t want to be fighting her from the other end, depending on your state (maybe country not sure where you are) father’s can get shit on bad. They often do. Before some moms come at me, yes I know moms can get shit on as well but overwhelmingly it’s the dads who are denied access to their children.
We’ve been talking but just out of knowing her and all, she’s is very transparent with everything. I know it sound dumb of me to say but it’s true.
I wanna stay as anonymous as possible so I’ll just say I’m pursuing a degree in medicine. The $200,000 is both undergrad and my current program. I have no doubt I’ll be able to pay off my loans.
Better man than me. I'd have deliberately changed my order to go and left her, without a word, to go ask her gossip group for a ride or order an uber or straight up walk.
Tell her husband and if your bf tries to get you back again, tell HR at the company they work at. And you do have to run. Get out and get away from him. You deserve better than this guy.
They are so religious they will never divorce. Couples counselling is the only option here.