This is a mistake. First of all, you're asking for not only basic info about past sexual relationships, but for nitty gritty details that you aren't prepared to hear. If someone tells you they've basically been SAd, don't be that guy who says wHy DiDn'T yOu CoMpLaIn. You probably feel sad because it's awful to hear that someone you like or love has been hurt in some way. Feel sad, be there for her if she needs it, don't ask any more insulting questions about it. Good luck.
Your boyfriend is a creep. He is sexually harassing his staff. They should file a lawsuit against him. Don’t marry predators or creeps.
I've never been in a situation like this, but imagine it must be very scary.
I think we are sometimes like frogs in boiling water, and don't realize how abusive it can be.
That’s the point. She wants to be able to hold your hand without the assumption that it leads to sex.
>>I asked why didn't she complain then
This is a mistake. First of all, you're asking for not only basic info about past sexual relationships, but for nitty gritty details that you aren't prepared to hear. If someone tells you they've basically been SAd, don't be that guy who says wHy DiDn'T yOu CoMpLaIn. You probably feel sad because it's awful to hear that someone you like or love has been hurt in some way. Feel sad, be there for her if she needs it, don't ask any more insulting questions about it. Good luck.