Do yourself a big favor and don’t make more effort than he does. I don’t mean count the times you call Vs the number of times he calls, but, don’t forget how many times he calls Vs you.
If you’re always calling him, making plans, showing up, you’re always going to be looking for validation that he’s never going to give.
If you can both act like adults, and make this a two-way street, then you have a chance at a decent relationship.
Do yourself a big favor and don’t make more effort than he does. I don’t mean count the times you call Vs the number of times he calls, but, don’t forget how many times he calls Vs you.
If you’re always calling him, making plans, showing up, you’re always going to be looking for validation that he’s never going to give.
If you can both act like adults, and make this a two-way street, then you have a chance at a decent relationship.