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I can't see any other posts in your history relating to this. My advice is the same: TALK to your girlfriend.
Overthinking and assuming sucks. I've been there. It's not fun. The only way to actually resolve the problem is to healthily communicate.
Your friends are right. It's too rushed and very bad timing. Do not succumb to the ultimatum. Let her move on. You should focus on college. You have plenty of time to find someone better and marry them.
I know what you are saying. I would have said that too. The worst mistake I ever made was promising myself to give him unconditional love. Now I feel more like obliged and trauma bonded to be with him. I don't know how to help myself anymore.
I know what you are saying. I would have said that too. The worst mistake I ever made was promising myself to give him unconditional love. Now I feel more like obliged and trauma bonded to be with him. I don't know how to help myself anymore.
You can’t hide this from him. He already knows something is going on. He’s been with you too long and you’re probably not as good of an actor as you think. Sit him down and tell him. He wouldn’t want you to withhold this from him.
2019 isn't really that long. I haven't seen either of my parents in over 5 years. Life happens. Tell your wife it's a no go, but you will go out of your way to help them find accomodations.
Sorry you married such a selfish cunt. Don't think for one second YOUR daughter isn't well aware of this. So gross.
For fucks sake, leave her and fuck her friends.
Srsly dude get some self respect and leave
I'm afraid to say probably yes.
Jesus christ dude I'm sorry but she's essentially having sex with him and you're a dildo.
Either its on purpose or he's the only one on her mind, in both case get the fuck away
Red flag.
It's only been a month. Time to end it.
You deserve someone who is mature enough to hold health boundaries with exes.
I suspect things aren't as very hot for her as you have been led to believe. Anyway, do as you think.you must, and may the blessings of Allah be upon you!
Why did you agree to let him move in with you?
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Exactly. What would she have done if she stayed? Sat and held his hand? Mopped his brow? Seems a bit selfish. Assuming she was back in a few hours. He could have even slept through it.
It’s new years, it’s literally a date change. I’d never leave my sick wife at home for that or any other reason. She feels the same way about me. Seems really weird to me.
Don't go – why would you? It's the wedding of people you barely know (your mom's friend's daughter?), and you'll have to spend time with people you're avoiding.
“My mom would throw a fit about it, though”
That sounds like a very good reason to spend less time around your mom, not more.
If it’s your house it’s more within your right for you to bring it up but what are you gonna do, kick her out bc she’s dressing sexy? Just leave it, turning this into an issue will make things worse between you. It’s her body. Just hang out with friends somewhere else like their houses or a public place
What you said first there is something called cohabitating, something that I learned simply to me that some people get “Quality time” By simply being around each other. It's a form of someone's love language and unfortunately while It's one of my primary forms, she doesn't seem to gain much from that. As for her doing her own thing while I do mine; We often do that when I game, but tonight just didnt seem to be the night for her.
I really like your idea of asking her what her expectations are for the night! That opens up a clear line of dialogue in which her expectations can be compromised with my own.
Mostly. There are kids of friends, and maybe some cousin but I usually avoid to stay much time with them.
We talked and decided to go, but we would leave early to get back for most of the game.
I did this with the entire working day World Cup. This is a way to meet the obligation. Have you checked other times/ ticket availability and try and swap the date? Can’t predict the NFC game, and I can understand how one wouldn’t think ahead for a plan b.
Besides, guy needs something to take away that WS series sting.
I don’t think it’s a choice. Not being American I don’t understand how the NFC works but I tell you if my team made it to a finals I would go for the game. Not that I value sports over family. (Women usually use that narrative to guilt man into doing what they want. It’s not mutually exclusive. You can support your team and value family time). But on this particular day there is a big game which might never happen again. We can go to the zoo or circus the following day or next week.
That’s my 2 pence…
It's a tough pill to swallow when you find out your S/O cheated. But it sounds like your man's really changed, and that's gotta count for something. The key thing to remember here is that people can change, but you can't change the past. You gotta be able to forgive and move on if you're gonna make things work.
I know it's easier said than done, but try to focus on the present and the future, not the past. You said yourself that things are better now, and he's changed. That's a good sign. You gotta trust him and give him a chance to prove himself. But also, you gotta trust yourself and your gut. If you're getting anxious and scared, that's not a good sign. It might be worth talking to him about it and getting everything out in the open.
As for whether a relationship can last after something like this, it's definitely possible. But it's gonna take a lot of very hot work and commitment from both of you. It's not gonna be easy, but it's definitely worth it if you love him and see a future with him.
Just remember, you deserve to be in a happy and healthy relationship, so don't settle for less. And always trust your gut! Hope that helps, bro!
I agree. A partner that behaves like an uneducated teen that has to be nagged or threatened so they clean is very off-putting. And I am not talking about keeping a house impeccable, I am talking about when there's an obvious mess and they walk right through it acting like sandra bullock in birdbox.
Your attendance or lack thereof will influence ONE of these events, your family is going to take your football priority over them a lot more personally than a team that doesn't know you exist.
Most people here automatically will write to walk away immediately.
I think a more reasonable approach is to try to work through this together, or at least give her a little time to consider if she truly wants to break up. I dont think any grand gestures are going to be the tipping point to win her over; save that as a celebration for later. However she needs to be 100% honest with you, and herself. If I were you I'd be worried she could string you along until the lease is up etc.
Good luck.
Yes.
To u only
The fact that you would continue to date such a scumbag who harms animals is telling about you. If I were you, I would go back over and quietly get a video of her doing that to the cat and then call animal control. While the video is likely not admissible in court, it will certainly show why you should be believed; otherwise she and her family are more likely to lie through their teeth, deny everything, and show them a healthy cat that follows her. So that’s why I would get evidence they can’t easily worm out of, then turn that bitch in
Personally i dont see the issue. There is worse you could be doing. But arguing about your relationship isnt gonna make it better
Girl. She is a fake friend and those ones are the worst, who will smile right in your face acting innocent while they try to stab you in the back. Trust your gut, it isn’t wrong. Ashley is trying to seduce your fiancé, giving him every hint that he can have her if he wants her. That’s no friend.
Now whether or not your fiancé has purposely reciprocated this flirty behavior, you need to talk to him and communicate with him how it’s made you feel. If he’s a real one he will have your back and listen to your feelings. It’s clear Ashley would take the opportunity to be a homewrecker if he gave her a chance to be. She’s already trying. If he isn’t being nefarious he should have no problem cutting her out of y’all’s life.
Talk to him and tell him how this behavior has made you feel. That you feel hurt and you see what Ashley’s intentions are. And you see how they flirt. Does he intentionally do this? How does he not see Ashley’s advances? It’s pretty obvious. Does he just like the attention? Or is it more? His responses will tell you what you need to know. It will be easy to shut this down if there’s nothing more he’s feeling for her.
Thank you! ❤️
I would do it. It beats spending the rest of your life wondering.
You don’t have to choose one…you can find someone that satisfies both. Especially at the beginning.
Tell your gf she dodged a bullet with those two other friends. What they told her just sounds like an excuse bc they had no issue when they were messing with her relationship, they just didn’t want to be upfront about what side they took.
Oh ok well then in the case, all good
But it's not every time, he has been doing this for you multiple times this week.
Your boyfriend is not an emotional support animal. Partners can certainly help us, but if you NEED him in order to keep your emotions in check, then you're putting unfair burden on him.
You need to be an adult and take care of yourself. He can be supportive, but he cannot be THE support. If you need therapy, then do that. If you need to stay somewhere safer even if it means a longer trip in the morning, then do that. If it means solving any of the problems in your life instead of being stressed about them, then do that. But your boyfriend can't be THE plan for you to be happy, that's not okay.
She saved his contact under a different name
She deleted the messages
Look, anyone who advices on how to stay together after infidelity will tell you the hardest but most important thing to rebuild is TRUST. For this to have the slightest chance to work, she has to work to rebuild your trust in her.
So, look at what I wrote first. Does this seem like someone who is trying to rebuild your trust? Trying to rebuild your relationship? Because if she’s not willing to put the work in there, why should you keep putting the work in to forgive?
He didn't even write anything, he just sent an emoji. Zero effort. Why are you tempted by mediocrity?
You’re still the AH. Stop referring to her FIANCÉ as her “friend”.
You don’t get to beg for your sister to come to your wedding when you’re equally telling her that her fiancé can’t come because of you and your family’s homophobic views.
That’s true .. I think he thinks I am able to “wait” for him until he stops
he keeps trying to convince me that society tries to brain wash you into thinking you have to have a 9-5.. he mentioned he doesn’t believe in retirement money, working for others and doesn’t even have stable insurance! Why is he doing this then!! He is risking so much for what!! He wants to use the money to start a business or buy a home but how would that even w o r k
It IS possible, or at least that's what I keep telling myself. That we were both horribly triggered. That said, as triggered as I was I didn't fight back “dirty”.
Part of me wanted to make a point by saying “that would be like me telling you that if you ever crossed a line with me I'd fuck all of your friends”…but truthfully even thinking that makes me sick to my stomach and because I love him I would never want to hurt him that way.
I just keep wondering what would happen if he ever even suspected me of being unfaithful. Jealousy and fear can make us see shit that isn't there and it's a “what if” that has me really hung up.
I struggled with this for years and when I finally told my wife my anxiety was through the roof. I thought she would leave me, reject me, question my manhood and none of that happened and she was very sweet and supportive and didn't make it about her. I'm sorry your spouse didn't provide you with what you needed and deserved in that moment, it's a failure on his part on a grand scale. For us it brought us closer because it was the moment I knew I could trust her with anything and he had that chance and just dropped the ball.
I trusted my wife. That's why she went on the trips. Someone is always trustworthy until they aren't.
I would be honest with him.
“It's really hurtful that you blew me off last-minute when I specifically requested time off work for our plans. It makes me feel like I'm not a priority to you.”
Then you can have a conversation about it. It's fine that things come up, but there were compromises to be made here, like seeing you before or after his sister or bringing you along. Cancelling last-minute is not cool unless it's an emergency. Do you feel that he makes time for you and is attentive and thoughtful in general? If so, I would express how this made you feel and the fact that you would prefer it didn't happen again. If not, I would consider whether you're getting your needs met in this relationship.
This is who he is. He waited till you were financially connected to him to show you. I'm sorry. Please talk to a lawyer and make sure you are protected.
I am being naive?
Yes.