You are being paranoid about his potentially watching “inappropriate” things to the point where he probably will just to spite you. You SHOULD, however, care about the homophobic message in the meme, not the bare breasts. Your BF has issues, and they aren't the direction you are looking.
I wish I could convince him to seek help but I know he will not listen to me š I just donāt want to deal with this anymore. Every time we are together, even in public places, he brings up his delusions. We actually got into an argument about it and I felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I just donāt want to do this anymore and I feel like itās holding me back if that makes sense.
Have you and your BF had a true sit down for him to air more of his feelings about her and has he ever expressed any help in setting boundaries with her? I know itāll be hard while heās still living with her, but if he really puts in the effort and knows to truly choose you over her, it could be ok long-term.
You are being paranoid about his potentially watching “inappropriate” things to the point where he probably will just to spite you. You SHOULD, however, care about the homophobic message in the meme, not the bare breasts. Your BF has issues, and they aren't the direction you are looking.
I wish I could convince him to seek help but I know he will not listen to me š I just donāt want to deal with this anymore. Every time we are together, even in public places, he brings up his delusions. We actually got into an argument about it and I felt so embarrassed and ashamed. I just donāt want to do this anymore and I feel like itās holding me back if that makes sense.
Have you and your BF had a true sit down for him to air more of his feelings about her and has he ever expressed any help in setting boundaries with her? I know itāll be hard while heās still living with her, but if he really puts in the effort and knows to truly choose you over her, it could be ok long-term.
So she told you what she wants, and you rather act like it isn't? You don't even believe she wants to swing and you say you trust her?