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She needs to get off of social media if negative comments mostly from strangers is going to push her over the edge.
Seems like spoiled ingratitude to me. She works part time and is coming after you about not cleaning the house as much as her? Common.. I bet she doesn't even have to work if she didn't want to. I'd drop her man, you're young and can still find someone worth while that doesn't put you in a dumpster over the smallest of things. She seems very immature. Me and mine lady are low income and split everything, chores, bills, etc.. Our lives sound 3x more difficult than hers and she's being this toxic.. nah, fux that. There's a whole lot of single women out there struggling to find a guy that has their shit together.
I haven't had someone be this petty thorough text. It's amazing.
It does sound like he tried to speak to you and your family in the language and you denied him.
The issue is a different understanding of why you didn't want to speak the language with him.
I'd say that part is the autism.
This surely won't be the only issue like this you come across so I hope you can communicate with him and work through it.
Maybe the two of you need to come up with a regular time to talk about issues that may bother him since he isn't showing them and you aren't seeing them.
I’m saying, these people are taking such a trivial thing too seriously
you got a stick up your ass huh
Someone better is waiting for you
This guy is either completely bonkers or he's trying to put you down and make you a weak, obedient wife who never says anything. Either way, you need to take your daughter and leave immidiatly
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It was really just a way for upper class white Americans to separate themselves from lower class whites and from other light skinned groups that “didn't count” as white.
It's also a sub suture associated with the country club aesthetic and old money attitudes
Not worth it! She is already manipulating you by saying she will kill herself. Don't fall for it!!
You feel uneasy and stressed – like walking on eggshells? Another reason to end it!
Have you ever heard the phase “birds of a feather”?
You sure you wanna have a baby with this guy?
Ok sure you said this 3 months ago. Now look what happened – exactly what “reactionist” reddit told her would happen.
It's been 3 months and he's already taught his toddler to call her momma and introduced them. He's already talked to her about having his future babies and convinced her that her friends aren't good for her.
There's having some life experience so you learn, and there's making such bad choices that you harm yourself for no reason. A kid that touches the side of a nude pot learns to not touch things on the stove. They don't have to intentionally hold their hand to the burner to learn that lesson.
OP could have listened to people (including her real world friends) and dated around a bit to learn this lesson. Instead now there's a kid attached to her a few months in. Now she feels pressured to have 3 kids with a guy she barely knows.
You think this is going to make her a productive individual? You think that toddler taught to call the woman he just met “momma” is going to have a happy ending?
There are some lessons you don't have to learn through experience.
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Add to it the underlying thoughts he’s had that you’re cheating on him. Just because the baby turned out to be his doesn’t automatically mean that he still won’t have those thoughts. He obviously has some huge trust issues, both by doing the paternity test behind your back and thinking that you may have cheated, that he still needs to work through. Add to that the betrayal you feel for him doing all this and confiding in his ex rather than you, and I think it shows that you two have some relationship issues that definitely need to be addressed.
He is such a good man of paper and he would promise this great plan for us. We had a shared vision. He just kept working on his plan and preferred to coparent with me.
I don’t think that you are ethically obligated to tell them anything unless and until you are married or getting there. At this point you don’t have to say anything.
To absolve yourself of your guilt though at some point you could just say what happened, don’t say the amount, and say that you don’t want to talk about it.
IMO if you expect him to help raise the child then 100% you should put him in the birth certificate. I also feel like the name should be decided by both parents, so hyphenating seems like a good compromise.
So, you know the answer. No matter how nude it's going to be.
Very simply, you have two choices.
Stay in an unfulfilling relationship, be everything he wants and get nothing in return.
Leave, heal and make room for someone who can hear you say I need abc and be those things for you.
Of course he wants to stay, he's getting what he wants and doesn't need to change because he knows you won't actually leave him.
I don’t think that this even falls into ethical non monogamy. It’s more like coerced non monogamy, so I don’t think even an ENM reddit will be able to help him.
If he won’t agree to a payment plan for what the car was worth, then take him to small claims court
There is a reason a 30 year old man started dating a teenager, and it's because most women his own age would not put up with that shit.
He is very clearly using you.
I’d add “consider making life decisions not based on what done guy thinks is hot” but I like your list!
Dump this chick yesterday. She is immature and controlling. What kind of person gets jealous over someone giving medical care to another person?
Ok, the way I see it probably calling the workplace was not a very smart move (I might be wrong though, I am not an expert), but I don't think calling her relatives was rude or bad. I mean, given your situation what else can you do? You're literally in different countries. What did she expect you to do otherwise?
I'm not sure I understand. If he lives there then why can't he have friends over?
I’m nursing and husband can’t play with the fountain machines at the moment. He understands that and respects my boundary. Doesn’t love it, I don’t either!
It’s part of the change that parenthood brings and we work through it. Things will shift again as our kids get older. I hope she can understand that, imo it’s not a huge ask for her to call you some other wonderfully dirty name.
So I get being worried, it can be.. tense when your spouse is out drinking all night and doesn't check in, yes there's the small chance it's a cheating thing, but a big part of it is shits just sketchy out there these days.
But considering he's demanding consent for you to go out and monitoring what you're wearing, I'm leaning more towards he just thinks you're trying to cheat and isn't all that worried about your safety.
Glad you cleared it up.
looking at screens is bad for concussion, put down your phone
Have you read the OP? If we are to believe OP's wife, there is no traumatic event in this instance ergo in this instance it is self-delusion not trauma-cause memory repression. She can piece together the story of that evening.
Again, if she had trauma in childhood, those traumatic childhood memories would be repressed. It is not that if you have a lot of childhood adverse experiences, your mind starts to make random holes in your memories of your adult life. There might be memory lapses, we don't remember everything, that's normal. But that's not the phenomenon we are discussing.
To clarify things: no, I don't have any feelings for Steve anymore. Honestly, I forgot about him until now.
Really Jane? Really?
This sub is filled with people who let their emotions guide them. I personally would never ask this sub for advice, but do try to offer advice here and there which is usually met with a crap ton of downvotes. Being reasonable isn't a characteristic many hold nowadays.
I already know I did everything. But it doesn't help me, I am still lost and sad.
She said (in the meantime) she is thinking whether she should go to therapy or not…
People get tired and that’s fine. But if that’s her response every single day, then what’s the solution? Just never have sex?
To confirm context though, have you actually had no sex the last month?
Dude, just make your move earlier instead of waiting until bedtime
Well since you bring up therapy, I actually am taking it. Not for this but in general I see a therapist and I've talked about this. She said it's normal, kinks don't have to be rooted in trauma. Her advice was to communicate it and be patient.
See he doesn't feel weird at all when I call him “daddy” or “papi”, that's actually something he likes.
And yeah it's pretty weird being jealous of a dog right? That's why it's making me feel dumb bro but thanks for the advice :]
I dunno friends don't insult friends.
Joking is one thing but this sounds pretty mean spirited and spiteful.
The dude needs to gtfo. Hope he's not being an AH cause he's got a crush tho. Either way, stop spending time with him. Life is too short to be insulted by so called friends.
Sounds like she is not interested in dating you.
So you're cheating. Stop. Cut your friend off. Either fix it with your fiance or be single. You are not a good person for doing this and need to own up and do the right thing. Monkey branching to an live guy is some ridiculous fantasy from a highschool girl. Grow up, you're fucking up people's lives now and this is beyond shitty.
Listen, you know what this is. This is you understanding you’re signing up to a lifetime of your partner not listening to you and ignoring your needs.
You asked for one simple thing and he couldn’t be bothered to deliver. I’m sorry. You’re not wrong to feel this way. This isn’t the man for you.
I think he can be friends with who ever he wants, but because one or both these women have expressed interest in him I think as man in a relationship he needs to take a step back from her, because clearly he giving her the wrong impression and for other people to notice and ask if there dating is a huge no no.
Tell him what the boss said about them dating and the fact other people have noticed there over friendly and he needs to take a step back from her, be cordial but not to the point people think there a thing. And definitely no texting out of work especially with the one that flat out expressed interest.
That's my opinion anyway.
If someone at my work openly expressed they like me and our relationship made my partner uncomfortable I wouldn't even hesitate to put distance, not to the point it's awkward at work.
It’s on him to tell them that their comments are disrespectful to you and your relationship. So have him step up and do so.
If this is in the US, many nurse practice acts view these situations as unprofessional conduct if they are pursuing a friendship (or more), even as a family member of the original patient. Often, the minimum timeframe to be allowed professionally to evolve any relationship after the patient’s discharge is 6 months. These standards exist because the process for developing a therapeutic relationship with patients healing from complex disease or injuries can result in very intimate (non sexual) relationships with families. Sometimes these feelings can be misinterpreted beyond what is needed to help the patient, and sometimes in such a crisis people actually do just gel with each other. But where the care ends is where these relationships are also expected to end.
Unless there was a business purpose for the phone call from the nurse to do a follow up after their discharge (and likely that would have been to the sister not him), then it was inappropriate for her to do so. There is a phenomenon called transference and countertransference where people on opposite sides of the therapeutic relationships believe they have feelings for the other- friendship or otherwise. The rules allow for a cooling off period between people after such an intense moment in time when a family member is hospitalized.
At this point, if the nurse is pursuing any kind of relationship with him despite their mutual interests it is inappropriate. She may not understand this, or her professional standards on this. Many do not, believe it or not, if they are newer nurses. But if your husband actually cares about her he needs to put an end to this at least for now. Because he could jeopardize her job or her career depending on what happens.
Was this recent enough that it may still be in your system? Or, do you have texts admitting it? Definitely break up with this dude, but I suggest doing it over text. Tell him you don't even feel safe enough to do it in person and make specific mention that it is because he ” drugged you with vistaril and who knows what else” and that you “don't trust him to not try that, or whatever other fucked up idea pops into his head next”
If you have stuff to collect, bring friends/witnesses with you when you go to get it.