We used to have sex a lot as teens, but since we hit our 20s there's been little to none. I've tried to talk with her about it but she gets defensive and makes me seem like the “bad guy” in those discussions. She's recently had issues with depression on and off and was on medication for anxiety but stopped for a while. She's on the IUD and didn't seem to have much for hormonal changes because of it.
You don't have to say anything about going through her phone
Yup, nobody cares whether you went through her phone or not.
Sort out your self-esteem issues. A therapist will help.
There's nothing wrong with you except for the way you look at yourself.
We used to have sex a lot as teens, but since we hit our 20s there's been little to none. I've tried to talk with her about it but she gets defensive and makes me seem like the “bad guy” in those discussions. She's recently had issues with depression on and off and was on medication for anxiety but stopped for a while. She's on the IUD and didn't seem to have much for hormonal changes because of it.