He’s not sleeping with other men (unless he’s cheating?) and identifies as straight. The issue isn’t that. It’s OP internalizing his view of sexual material as an issue and not talking to him about it.
But whatever, bestie. You obviously didn’t read my response super well because I never said anything about him sleeping with men. And there is a difference between homophobic in “my eyes” and saying bullshit like “I’m definitely not gonna wanna stay with a guy that wants to sleep with other guys” and not see the underlying issues with it.
First off, I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who had the desire to sleep with anyone else. Tf. That’s cheating.
Secondly, sexual past is the past. Anyone can catch anything from anyone so it can’t be an STD/STI thing…
Third, that’s the easiest way to lose a great partner if that’s the deal breaker and that were to ever happen.
But I didn’t ask your misguided opinion. I’m not sure why people with such takes as yours are so loud about being any kind of -phobic or -ist. Grow up.
With no clue who Ramsey is I will say, keeping separate accounts is a trust issue. Every single person I know who has separate accounts states they don't trust their spouses with the finances. It doesn't seem like a far fetch to me that you should be able to trust the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with everything.
Are you seeing a different post history then me?
I see 2 posts, both of with ages consistent with this post.
If I'm wrong I'd love to know why what I'm seeing is different than yours lol
He’s not sleeping with other men (unless he’s cheating?) and identifies as straight. The issue isn’t that. It’s OP internalizing his view of sexual material as an issue and not talking to him about it.
But whatever, bestie. You obviously didn’t read my response super well because I never said anything about him sleeping with men. And there is a difference between homophobic in “my eyes” and saying bullshit like “I’m definitely not gonna wanna stay with a guy that wants to sleep with other guys” and not see the underlying issues with it.
First off, I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who had the desire to sleep with anyone else. Tf. That’s cheating.
Secondly, sexual past is the past. Anyone can catch anything from anyone so it can’t be an STD/STI thing…
Third, that’s the easiest way to lose a great partner if that’s the deal breaker and that were to ever happen.
But I didn’t ask your misguided opinion. I’m not sure why people with such takes as yours are so loud about being any kind of -phobic or -ist. Grow up.
With no clue who Ramsey is I will say, keeping separate accounts is a trust issue. Every single person I know who has separate accounts states they don't trust their spouses with the finances. It doesn't seem like a far fetch to me that you should be able to trust the person you plan to spend the rest of your life with everything.