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I don’t know it’s mixed because I love her and don’t want to leave her but don’t know if I’m ready
6 years is a long time. Maybe she doesn't find you attractive anymore and has to imagine someone else now.
Yeah your right, misery loves company. OP wants to do nothing but hear what he wants and throw a pity party. Looks like he already has a attendee.
I’m so impressed how you just stood up for yourself and told him how it is. Good for you. You grew a spine… and some spikes too! Good for you! He clearly thought you were someone he could bully into who knows what.
And I love that you are blocking his attempts to continue to reach out…
Honestly this was headed nowhere good and you got off that road before anything bad happened. Good for you! And once you grow that spine it will protect you moving forward.
Well done, my friend
Reading the wording of this text:
I got sucked into a 1 hr lap dance with two girls that came to $800.. I could blow my brains out
Sounds like he is not happy with it. Possible he felt pressured into it? or something he was misled on the price and forced to pay afterward? Not saying what he did was right. However, I would consider getting his side of the story before making any rash decisions.
Do you know what his friend is like? Could they be a bad influence or even pressure him into it?
Don't do it
I can see that. In a way, though, it was solicited.
“Rock and a hard place with the baby and I don't know what to do. Please give me advice on this sub called Relationship Advice.”
It's easily assumed that abortion would be somewhere in the conversation.
Hope she gets help !!
Then try new things together, stuff neither of you have done together, be a bit adventurous, try some new hobbies and stuff, go to new places! New experiences will do far more for your relationship in terms of making things interesting than fighting will
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Yes, because you are insecure. But all feelings are valid. So it could be healthy to just say you are insecure. It might not end well for you but if it would just get worse otherwise, its best to share and confront it head-on. Acknowledging insecurity may not be super hard but its way more attractive than insecure behavior/action with no self-awareness.
>Now, she is clearly trying to hide that X liked all those pictures.
Or she just doesn't like to see his name under it, bump the likes, etc. countless reasons.
Doesn't matter what she's doing, if you don't trust her then your relationship will be over regardless.
But my gf found out that we talk on messenger when she’s asleep. i never hid it from her but i guess she didn’t realize we will chat when she’s asleep. i have insomnia and she goes to bed early so this didn’t seem weird to me.
If your nighttime conversations were not regular and your girlfriend knew about the daytime conversations, how did she “find out” and why would she get “super freaked out”? Something is missing. And maybe you didn't lie to her about these conversations, but to say you didn't “hide it” but you “guess she didn't realize” things were happening when she was . . . asleep? Dude.
And there were absolutely less extreme solutions that respected her insecurity but didn't require you to cut off a a “cherished friend” (but no one should assume her “cherished” status means you communicated with her regularly??)
Also:
our conversations are only during work hours and primarily about work, occasionally about cooking or music. we don’t talk about our personal lives and all of our zoom calls are out loud and my gf can hear them.
Now you talk about your GF “all the time openly”? (also, if your gf hears you chit chatting with coworker all day over zoom, why would she want to hear you talk about coworker outside of work hours??)
And:
it was nice to be able to talk to someone at work during meetings.. . .all of our zoom calls are out loud and my gf can hear them.
Make it make sense.
Or don't.
But realize that when there are “gaps” in your story, people will make reasonable inferences to fill in those gaps. And when you seemingly contradict yourself AND the reasonably assumed facts. . . that is probably enough to make anyone crazy. So in addition to finding some new friends outside of work, you should also work on your communication.
Both lanes
I agree with you, however, “We need to talk.” Is NOT the phrasing one should use frivolously.
I think the big problem is If she said I should go for a run I’d be like “yeah you’re right” and go. But if I told her she’d take it a lot more to heart. I just don’t know the best way to say “hey you always talk about it you need to do it”. I feel like saying that with exercise is so touchy
If it's no work than surely you can simply watch the kid while you WFH, right? And you wife can work a regular 9-5?
I just feel like a bad girlfriend because I can’t provide him something so basic and I should be able to. And I don’t want to hurt him by dragging him into something unfulfilling that’s my fault it’s unfulfilling
I think Its more mental problem but i can be wrong
Then you should officially seperate to give yourself time/space to think and MORE IMPORTANTLY to see what she does with the time apart.
Will she PROACTIVELY take the steps to get herself sorted and make amends to you? Will she quit drinking and attend therapy to work on being the partner you deserve?
Or will she not.
Lmao why did you get with a 19yo girl if you can’t keep up with her. Stop whining and enjoy the ride
Run away
I'm not reading all that but I'm happy for you or sorry that happened to you!
It’s been so long and still sometimes I read a thread like this and just get angry at myself for not having any self esteem at the time. Fortunately it hurts a bit less every time. Thank you for sharing.
I don't think you look as good as you think you do. I don't think she looks as bad as you think she does.
First and foremost I think that your past issues with alcohol are being triggered here and you're being excessively judgmental.
I also think you're blaming your roommate for your own mistakes. If you don't party in the same way as someone, don't party with them and don't live! with them. If somebody doesn't party in the same way as you and you're out with them, focus on the other people that you can hang out with.
Your roommate isn't really asking you for help and yet you're so hyper focused on their behavior. At the end of the day, even though she was so drunk and irresponsible, she found a way to get you guys a safe way to get home didn't she?
I also feel like you're getting in the way of roommate A and B's relationship. It's such a red flag when a third party tries to point out problems in a friendship when the two people in the friendship aren't exactly having issues that are your business.
The only thing that is your business is your cat's safety. But what can you do, you've told this roommate how you prefer to live with your cats and they can't follow the rules. It's a tale as old as time and it just probably means you shouldn't be living together when it's time to renew the lease. Not everyone knows living with pets is very serious. The solution isn't to force your roommate to be better about your pet when they know the rules and just aren't following it. The solution is to be in reality about your situation, and just understand you're not a good roommate fit.
Leave your room mate alone to find their own people and don't pretend to be their friend when I don't think you really are. Sometimes two people just don't mesh well, but deciding that they're flawed and that you're a perfect person to party with is not the right conclusion. It just means you're on different paths. Honestly, I'd rather party with her than you!
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It may sting bad for the first couple weeks even a month or two but you're new normal starts getting OK, then better and better. Start working on yourself. Do things you enjoy, take care of yourself. And let her go if that's what she wants. Keep working on yourself until it doesn't hurt anymore.
I'm so blessed and happy that I decided to end things with my first boyfriend. After him I found the love of my life and it was the best years of my life I had with him. That wouldn't have been possible if I stayed with someone. Whether not I ended it or he ended it, it doesn't matter. I found someone who appreciated Me, loved me, gave me attention and care, involved himself in things I like. And vise versa.
That break up felt weird to me when it happened I was with him for a very long time 17-22 … so it was weird at first. But working a job, doing the things I love, it all helped me be able to move on from that period of life.
break up with her, have someone there to support/protect you, and record on your phone the reaction. so if she threatens you now you have proof. you don’t need to stay with someone abusive
break up with her, have someone there to support/protect you, and record on your phone the reaction. so if she threatens you now you have proof. you don’t need to stay with someone abusive
Troll bait. This same story keeps getting reposted here.
You need to talk to her about how you're not her Ex and it is not fair for her to be treating you like this so far into your relationship. Talk about the different ways you express your love language and what you can do to improve affection & communication between you both so that both of you feel loved and supported.
Can you link me to the post please ?
You are not in love with her. You are in love with an idea of a person she has presented, but that person doesn't actually exist. Figure out what it is about this “person” you like and go find it in someone who is real. I promise you will be happier.
Also, why would you want to be with someone who treats someone they supposedly love like this? She is lying. A lot. And in really hurtful ways. That is not love and you deserve to be loved back.
If you want to find out if threesomes and orgies are for you, better to do it with a casual partner with whom you have no emotional, economic, social, familial investment. If it's something you enjoy, you can look for a more serious partner with the same outlook.
Even then though, there's no guarantee that you won't have a problem having threesomes with someone you are more deeply involved with.
A lot of people might think it's boring and vanilla having a monogamous relationship, but many of those people often have a habit of fucking-up important relationship, or don't give a shit about important relationships.
Yeah, I figured if dad set her up with OP, it was probably not because he wanted him to have more sex, but for his daughter's sake, to have her see what it's like to be around a guy who isn't always in it for sex, who wants to get to know her as a person. Someone interested in a healthier relationship than the ones she's been in.
Are you seriously asking why the mom is responsive for a SIX YEAR OLDS behavior? if you are because she is 100% at fault here, obviously.
Get over your insecurity.
Your bf is the issue. Your parents are not controlling, otherwise they would want you to come back and live! with them. They actually literally want you to live on your own and have space to see what is best for you.
Move out. If the relationship crumbles then be it. Your bf sounds immature and exhausting.
Not sure why. Nothing else going on apart from sleeping. Every now and then they got scared or just wanted to be with me. They’re now in their late teens and have slept in their own beds all night for quite some years now.
TLDR – Scanning quickly it sounds like this:
You are interested in her, you two seem a bit friendly towards each other.
You begin to flirt, tell her how you feel. She says you're nice, but she just got out of a relationship and is not ready.
You kind of push her for an answer, she says no. Now you want to know what went wrong, what to do…
Move on, she is not ready for a relationship now (at best you would've been a rebound in any case). You're young, live! your life, you'll meet other people. Good luck.
You need to online in your home alone and experience life on your own. You are already doing quite a lot for this guy. Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm
I really appreciate your input. My family financially cant help me. They don’t really have money. I’d also need money for a plane ticket and of course I want to take the puppies with me. They are my responsibility and I can’t abandon them. He always tries to get my friend’s addresses because if I leave he will go there. He will get them from my phone. When Ive just been hanging outwith them he’ll randomly show up. Also the country I am in, the police wont support me. Domestic abuse is seen as a family issue. So I need to just try and be smart and get everything in order to leave. If he knows I’m leaving he’ll try and lock me in a room or something. Or he loses his mind and get angry.
You hurt or threaten my dog. You will be on the ground.
It sounds like your BF handles your weird drunk ass parents perfectly.
You can't change your parents, they probably thought they were being funny.
He handled it like a pro.
Your dad doesn't actually think you bf is a pedophile, he's just a drunk who thought they would be funny to say.
There's nothing to worry about here except your parents' drinking.
Geez, You didn’t think to just say “no thanks” when she want for it? Well, you’re a dirty cheater now, OP. The most honorable thing you could do at this point is confess to your S.O. And leave so she can date someone who isn’t a cheater
not cheating on your spouse and being a nun are kinda two different things.
You would be pretty close. Look at her AITA post.
So for context he dropped me off at my aunts when I was 13 and never picked me back up. 10 years later I got pregnant with my first baby, my husband and I couldn’t afford our apartment anymore so we moved in with my dad for what was supposed to be temporarily.
Or just find someone who is not racist and don't waste precious time trying to change someone…
You get it
You can not fix this. Alcoholics will drink and use any excuse to do so.
Focus on yourself. Keep yourself safe and develop an exit plan. Seek therapy for yourself.
I grew up in this house. In the end my father chose life with Jim Bean, Jack Daniels and Captain Morgan over life with his wife and kids. He denied he had a problem and scoffed at treatment. In the end, his excuse was his family left him.
Those people are shadowbanned, no one can see them.
He has yes, but it’s not often. Whenever i brought it up in the past he just said he didn’t have a high sex drive, but then i found out about the porn so i just felt like i was not enough. We have been dating for a little under 2 years now
I said she doesn’t get to have op care for her anymore not celebrate the abuse.
Maybe I’m depressing and pessimistic but I can’t imagine even the best relationship surviving that level of ongoing financial stress.
Sure, maybe now when you’re still in the early stages but in five, ten years? When you see all your friends going on honeymoons and vacations and putting their kids in music lessons? I’m so sorry for both of you, this massively sucks
Seriously. None of that is “being a good partner” that’s losing your entire identity to please someone. It’s not healthy at all. If the cost of admission for a relationship is giving up pets (wtf!?) and giving up your dreams (wtf!?????!) then that is not a relationship worth being in.
Job is unrelated to her degree ??? girls just still tryin to find herself
Times people do this and it ends badly – a lot. Times people do this and it goes well – rare.
If you met each other in a sex club in the group sex room and that kids is “how I met your mother” (bad joke to show just how rare/unlikely)… then maybe you'd be ok as it's clear you both have been cool with things like this in the past.
Including someone you know usually goes badly unless they've done this before – ie have a history of doing this with/for each other in their relationships. Most stories I've seen where it didn't go wrong used a professional as well they're more professional, they help keep everyone happy and you never see them again ie special trip to Vegas etc.
My SO did a threesome before us, and early on asked if it's something I'm interested in, and while there is the fantasy component it's not something I actually want. I'm a jealous type, I don't want to share and I can't shake that they'd feel that way too. The porn fantasy is just that, in my fantasy I'm great, I'm big, I don't have back issues, everyone is happy, well groomed and attentive. I know reality can never match what my fantasy has, it's just not realistic so I'd prefer to keep it as fantasy.
Does this mean you can't or shouldn't, only you know this, but I'd say look hard at yourself and what you want and what you are willing to risk and decide.
I think your wife just wants to fuck her friend and is wrapping it up as a “birthday present” to you.
Doing this will probanly ruin your marriage, though she'll probably go through with it whether you are involved or not. She likely already is.
You are not asking for too much. Wanting to meet friends once every two weeks is super reasonable. Your wife is a grown woman in her thirties, she should be able to entertain herself for an evening.
They will all live! with her and fly together. Money is not an issue for us. And I said that I felt like I was forced to choose. My kids don’t feel like I am choosing anything as they are too young to grasp the situation.
Tell her, if she doesn't want to be with you, you xan divorce. However if you want to stay together, she needs to show you theur convos. Explain, that uf your marriage us wirth less fir her than his privacy, then it is better to end it.
Explain to her that if she deletes their messages you will never fully trust her, and don't know if you can stay with her.
She has already told you how she doesn't feel that strongly about you. Tell me, would you stay with her, if she cheated on you?
If not, than honestly, unless she decides to show you their undeleted cinvos it mighr better to divorce.
lgbtq isnt an adult concept
Thanks for replying.
I don't think he will be sleep with someone someday. We love each other and maybe he has more love than me inside of his heart. We don't have any tiny little other problem about us. We fit perfect to each other. Thats why i trying to convince myself its ok. I dont want to leave him. Also he dont want to lose me. Thats why he stays loyal. But the reason what makes him loyal bothers me. 🙁
Even if the ex was real, constantly bringing them up is a form of manipulation.
Dude. I once was in a similar situation with my ex and his best friend who I actually really liked and got on well with. Out of the blue, during a party ex and I held in our apartment, guy pulled me aside and just unloaded pretty much the same kind of bs on me. How I'm not good enough for him and all that (which was, all circumstances considered, absolutely ridiculous). I told ex later that night and he broke down in tears. Because he felt betrayed by his friend and knew he had to cut him off. My ex had a lot of issues and wasn't the best person all the time, but in that situation he had my back, fully. I didn't even need proof so he would trust me. You honestly dodged a bullet there, your SO sounds like a fool or someone who's been so heavily manipulated that it borders on brainwash. She listened to everything that you showed her and even cut off some of her friends for taking your side? Red flag galore, and you don't want to be competing with another man's power over your SO for the rest of your life, trust me.
I deleted my comment because OP is saying in replies to me that sometimes she’s okay with it and they play fight, so I can see why the boyfriend could be confused/frustrated.