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When I (24M) was 15 I found my Moms phone still open with texts and graphic pictures from her ex. I never told my dad, but I did confront her. I told her she needed to tell him or I would and to stop cheating right away. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do as a kid and it might have been the reason I grew up so fast.
Talk to your dad, go over options. Let him him know you love him still but he need to change and be transparent with your mom. Doing that will relieve so much of that pressure you’re feeling. You’ll get through this man, I know you will.
It’s such a new relationship that I don’t think it’s even remotely worth it to stick around and try to figure out what the deal is. She apparently didn’t leave because she didn’t want to be with him, she left because he wouldn’t commit. And she’s still entertaining him in a romantic way. Hell nah. Even if her actions weren’t disrespectful as hell to your relationship, she still needs time to get over this other guy.
Thank you for your heartfelt response and honesty. I wish I could be more supportive:) Maybe you should play him at his own game! I understand that maybe sounds hypocritical and you have less moral high ground but ?♂️
It doesn’t have to be anything too full on but enough to focus his attention. Sorry if I’m way out of line .
Honestly based on that this sounds like an abusive situation. He needs to get in some anger management/therapy to help get control over his mood swings.
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Eww. You are 21, you have a house and you support two 30 year olds. Just don't. Did you read what you wrote? The literal reason why your bf is with you is because no woman his age would want him… them. They are such losers, it's wild you don't see it. Move in your house on your own and never look back.
But why did it go from “I don’t even watch porn” to “I cannot stop my sexual thoughts about other people”? Like, I understand time is in play, and that the newness wears off. But boy..
You suck. You are already emotionally cheating. Tell your boyfriend so he knows what he’s dating and can make better choices about his future. The guy is building a life with an unfaithful woman.
And she really loves me doesnt she? She did stuff without my consent, she is stringing me along, pocketing me , lying to me. She really does love me . Im so luckt
Ok. If you really like her and are ok with keeping things as they are, do that. She’s just saying that she does t want the responsibility of an “official” relationship right now and doesn’t want to feel like she has to consider you in her life decisions. That’s really fair on her part. If it’s not enough for you, then move on.
Girl ew. You know you aren‘t a prisoner and can do whatever you want?
As soon as a guy tries to „compromise“ about what I wear, it‘s over for me. Super controlling for no reason. It also shows his views on women and this disgusts me.
You have already said that your cousin has issues, and is a troublemaker.
Do you have any reason to believe that this could be true? No. The most plausible explanation is that your cousin has made this statement to get a reaction from you. Go with that.
I think it’s very weird that you don’t just “share” the chore of cleaning up the poop. They are both your dogs so it’s a responsibility of both.
The way you talk to each other is very rude and not compassionate at all.
Idk what the “general” chore split is, if you were doing everything maybe now he is sulking because he has to pull his weight. Or maybe he is unhappy that he’s suddenly doing a new chore but he doesn’t see you working very hot too. Idk there isn’t enough info except someone here needs to be the mature one and sit you both down and talk about what is expected in terms of chores and house upkeep. This is a convo that every couple needs to have, usually more than once
When I (24M) was 15 I found my Moms phone still open with texts and graphic pictures from her ex. I never told my dad, but I did confront her. I told her she needed to tell him or I would and to stop cheating right away. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do as a kid and it might have been the reason I grew up so fast.
Talk to your dad, go over options. Let him him know you love him still but he need to change and be transparent with your mom. Doing that will relieve so much of that pressure you’re feeling. You’ll get through this man, I know you will.
It’s such a new relationship that I don’t think it’s even remotely worth it to stick around and try to figure out what the deal is. She apparently didn’t leave because she didn’t want to be with him, she left because he wouldn’t commit. And she’s still entertaining him in a romantic way. Hell nah. Even if her actions weren’t disrespectful as hell to your relationship, she still needs time to get over this other guy.
Please get tested.
Thank you for your heartfelt response and honesty. I wish I could be more supportive:) Maybe you should play him at his own game! I understand that maybe sounds hypocritical and you have less moral high ground but ?♂️
It doesn’t have to be anything too full on but enough to focus his attention. Sorry if I’m way out of line .
Honestly based on that this sounds like an abusive situation. He needs to get in some anger management/therapy to help get control over his mood swings.
This dude is a teenage boy, not a 30 year old man lmao
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Make an effort to have the family activity be something that she likes, or something completely new as no she might be more into joining.
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How would you feel later if you discovered that your support is what directly enabled their behavior?
Troll post. He keeps doing this and his one account has been deleted. Probably because no one agreed with him
Eww. You are 21, you have a house and you support two 30 year olds. Just don't. Did you read what you wrote? The literal reason why your bf is with you is because no woman his age would want him… them. They are such losers, it's wild you don't see it. Move in your house on your own and never look back.
But why did it go from “I don’t even watch porn” to “I cannot stop my sexual thoughts about other people”? Like, I understand time is in play, and that the newness wears off. But boy..
You suck. You are already emotionally cheating. Tell your boyfriend so he knows what he’s dating and can make better choices about his future. The guy is building a life with an unfaithful woman.
And she really loves me doesnt she? She did stuff without my consent, she is stringing me along, pocketing me , lying to me. She really does love me . Im so luckt
Ok. If you really like her and are ok with keeping things as they are, do that. She’s just saying that she does t want the responsibility of an “official” relationship right now and doesn’t want to feel like she has to consider you in her life decisions. That’s really fair on her part. If it’s not enough for you, then move on.
Girl ew. You know you aren‘t a prisoner and can do whatever you want?
As soon as a guy tries to „compromise“ about what I wear, it‘s over for me. Super controlling for no reason. It also shows his views on women and this disgusts me.
Dump him.
You have already said that your cousin has issues, and is a troublemaker.
Do you have any reason to believe that this could be true? No. The most plausible explanation is that your cousin has made this statement to get a reaction from you. Go with that.
I think it’s very weird that you don’t just “share” the chore of cleaning up the poop. They are both your dogs so it’s a responsibility of both.
The way you talk to each other is very rude and not compassionate at all.
Idk what the “general” chore split is, if you were doing everything maybe now he is sulking because he has to pull his weight. Or maybe he is unhappy that he’s suddenly doing a new chore but he doesn’t see you working very hot too. Idk there isn’t enough info except someone here needs to be the mature one and sit you both down and talk about what is expected in terms of chores and house upkeep. This is a convo that every couple needs to have, usually more than once
Sorry for formatting, I used paragraph breaks while I was typing but they didn't stick.