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Why do you think she did it?
I’m going to nursing school so he can be a stay home dad one day.
Bad idea. Both parties should expect the other to contribute, in my opinion.
I saw him try to message other girls. And he got ignored. I’m.. embarrassed for him. A bit heartbroken.
He felt secure in eventually being provided for through you and tried his luck at having his cake and eating it too.
That, and he's simply an adulterer. Many people are, unfortunately.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. The simple answer Is to leave but damn.
You didn't do anything wrong, but the answer is, as you said, a simple one.
There aren't any magic words you can say to make him stop. He enjoys putting you down. He wants you to be insecure and feel unlovable so that you accept his abuse and don't leave him.
LEAVE. HIM.
I think the thing you need to remember is that expressing preferences about a partner’s body is like being a guest in somebody else’s house.
You can tell them what you do and don’t like; if something really bothers you, you can ask them to change (or not change), because you’ve been invited to share their space and it’s courteous of them as the “host” for lack of a better term to hear you out and consider your perspective.
But ultimately you have no say over their decision; if they decline to meet your preferences, that’s pretty much the end of it. Because you are the guest, but they are the person who has to live! in that house – that body – all the time, for all their lives. So what they want matters A LOT more than what you want, even if it comes to a preference you don’t think you’re able to alter. And if you keep pushing them to make the change despite them not wanting to, that makes you a shitty guest and probably not somebody they’re going to want to share their home with again.
When it comes to our partners appearance, it’s not 50/50 when it comes to the weight of our respective opinions. It’s more like 10% us and 90% them, for the reasons expressed above. And what seems like a “little hassle” in your mind might not appear that way to her – in fact based on how she’s expressed herself, it’s clearly not a small matter in her eyes. So you have to think about what you’re asking her to do from her view – to her, you’re saying “You’re selfish for not wanting to routinely do something that makes you physically and psychologically uncomfortable so that I can find your body more visually appealing”. Can you see how that might not seem like a small sacrifice to her? For what it’s worth, you shouldn’t be using shaving part of your body – something you say you would be comfortable with – as a comparison; you should be using something you’re NOT comfortable with, physically or emotionally, as the reference point. Because that’s what it is for her. So use that as a yardstick to think about what you’re really asking her to do in service to your sexual preferences – I think it might give you a different perspective.
Sorry there’s a lot more to the story, I’m just so drained. He drinks a lot and every time he does he insults me and says he hates me, I suck, etc. I have a whole list on my phone of his insults. The next day he says he won’t do it again but those words never stick. I feel like I’m the problem but other than crying when I get frustrated for him picking on me (which he hates when I cry), I can’t pin point what I’m doing wrong. I just love him so much and keep hoping he’s going to change.
Yeah I will :/ this is one of those things that’s too important to me.
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Damn, didn't notice the ages and was wondering why the fuck she was tolerating him.
Seriously, she is at an age she should be more mature.
It’s not good she is this insecure. Has she been cheated on a lot?
Get your GF therapy, she probably has low self esteem and it sounds like she might be caught in a cycle. She needs to be stronger to be able to cut the friend off and keep it that way.
I think what it should come down to is his ability to reassure you, have an honest conversation, and be transparent. He’s obviously unwilling to actually reassure you, he isn’t being transparent (i.e. explaining how he met this woman you saw in his search bar), and the whole situation is stressing you out. His telling you you’re creating stories without trying to explain his side, here he’s trying to discount your perception of events and this your feelings. If he cared about you, he wouldn’t be doing this.
Mans just journaling and putting his thoughts on paper yet he’s getting dragged lol.
It's not just merely a hypothetical though. And I'm not sure how we aren't being mature about it right now.
You have to work with the mind you've currently got. Right now you're at the pinning in your life, where you're insecure and you haven't really healed from the hurt if you're okay relationships. This takes time and if you have trouble recovering from these relationships, sometimes therapy.
What you've got here is a dysfunctional relationship. You simply can't have this in your life right now, especially after he broke up with you. The reason why is simple, you no longer trust him and there is enough reasonable doubt in your mind to drive you crazy.
Let's say you get back together. He goes out one night with friends, you're going to sit there and think about”what he's really doing”.
Don't do this to yourself for the reason about and for the reason that this guy is using you as a backup.
After reading your replies to other folks..
Pull you head out of your ass. Ofc you don't pay her phone bill. Jfc.
No pay it yourself is the correct answer.
Apparently, you love having drama and a gaslight in your life. I would correct that situation.
It works within 72 hours.
She's demanding that because in order to live! a comfortable life you have to bring in enough income. You're not doing that in a 'career' job so it's time to step up to something better. She can't do that because of her other commitments whereas yours is a personal choice. Being a partner means supporting them in sickness and health but it seems here you think you get a pass because you like your co-workers. She just basically told you that she needs someone with more financial ambition. You get to decide if you'd rather keep the low paying job or try and put effort into improving your overall quality of life with a pay jump to make your partner happy. Honestly if I was her I would be really sad that my partner of 3 years could see me sick, scared and concerned like that and start complaining about how they don't want to look for a new job. There might be some great opportunities and you can't even be bothered to try and look? That's like a big F U my man. Reflect.
It ruins the spirit of the gift because you bought them as a way to assert yourself and replace something she really likes in an imaginary competition with a guy she's no longer dating because for some reason it's a threat to you? Did you completely delete all pictures, remnants and gifts from all exes? She's dating you not him. You made a sweet gift into a tag of ownership.
???RUN???
That sounds insanely toxic. He needs to get over himself and calm the hell down.
I don’t think he understands what marriage means.
What were the other things, just for education
She won’t admit it but I also think us getting more seasoned and ready for the whole marriage and kids thing might have scared her away. I’m a pretty easy going guy (maybe too easy going) and i would have been fine with us just having a convo about it but…
On my own, I do want those things. So you’re right about whether or not I should put that on hold for a year.