Y'all are both taking this shit way too seriously. You're allowed to find what you find hard while also acknowledging it ain't like a crazy big deal anyways. Likewise she needs to get over her insecurities and understand that it's just a fantasy, obviously since it hasn't happened yet its not like it's a make or break on whether you need it for a relationship.
Also get over this weird sanctity for sex, yall are fuckin it's just not that deep. Don't be afraid to explore shit cause of them preconceived notions.
Y'all are both taking this shit way too seriously. You're allowed to find what you find hard while also acknowledging it ain't like a crazy big deal anyways. Likewise she needs to get over her insecurities and understand that it's just a fantasy, obviously since it hasn't happened yet its not like it's a make or break on whether you need it for a relationship.
Also get over this weird sanctity for sex, yall are fuckin it's just not that deep. Don't be afraid to explore shit cause of them preconceived notions.