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1. I remember telling my son once that kids don’t come with instruction manuals, so you kinda learn as you go.

   I don’t recall what we were arguing about, but we both figured out to give each other grace.

   OP- just tell your kid you love him every day. Even when he sighs, and rolls his eyes-and he will. Secretly, in his heart of hearts, he’ll love it, and be glad you did.

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2. I feel like some of y’all can’t take a joke…

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3. hmm boundaries, thanks! who are you to be so wise in the ways of the world xD

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4. The best way to help is to get him into therapy.

   Anxiety at this level isn’t sustainable, and if you start to make it easier for him to get by, you’re enabling it. If it isn’t clear, that means you’re actually making it worse.

   The world is littered with people who “just wanted to help” and obviously your intentions are good but you have to think this through.

   HE has to deal with this. Not you. The more of his burden you shoulder, the bigger that burden grows. If you’re really good at making his anxiety tolerable, you’re not making the cause of it go away.

   If he doesn’t go to therapy, no matter what you do, it will get worse. You helping him doesn’t look like what you think it does. He has to help himself.

   I wouldn’t say this if his anxiety was less debilitating. If he was just regular “social anxiety,” there are plenty of ways to help. None of them are going to work in this extreme situation.

   I mean, he jumped out the window.

   The more you help him cope without therapy, the more likely he is to become dependent on you. And the more likely he is to think that he can get by without therapy, as long as you’re there. All the time. No matter what.

   Before you know it, your entire life is attached to his anxiety, and he’s gotten ten times worse.

   We don’t get a lot of time here, life flies by so quickly.

   If you want to help him, you’ll encourage him to go to therapy.

   You can sit down with him and look at his insurance, and what his options are. You can call the office and ask them questions for him. You can help him find insurance that will cover it, or research companies like BetterHealth, if you’re in the US.

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