Well, your sister and her kid are just existing; your brother is the one actively being a bigot and cutting people out.
Family is family. You don’t need to cut anyone off, but you need to take your sisters side. So when there’s a family gathering or whatnot, it’s the toxic AH who is excluded and not your sister. You can maintain a relationship with the toxic brother, but not at the expense of the innocent and ethical. So when push comes to shove, have the right siblings back.
An everlasting job stopper
Well, your sister and her kid are just existing; your brother is the one actively being a bigot and cutting people out.
Family is family. You don’t need to cut anyone off, but you need to take your sisters side. So when there’s a family gathering or whatnot, it’s the toxic AH who is excluded and not your sister. You can maintain a relationship with the toxic brother, but not at the expense of the innocent and ethical. So when push comes to shove, have the right siblings back.