If you don't live with him, tell him “This relationship is over”. (that's a complete sentence). “You don't get to argue, it's over” That is a second complete sentence. Stay strong
If this was true…. No one should be able to drink, smoke, drive, vote, join military, or own a gun until 25. Scary to think we can do all those things without a fully developed brain
Do as she asks. Grow as a person. Focus on friends and family. Crush your career. Work on being a better you. Also don’t get trapped later down the road if she comes back. You owe it to yourself to experience other relationships and grow as an individual
Ask if he had any relation to anyone that died. Your bf had valid points. I’ll ask this if your dad was randomly killed for this reason would you be understanding of why he died. I’m not gonna be angry at your dad for being upset that at that statement it’s a rough pill to swallow for any.
Please don’t listen to comments calling your dad a bad apple you know his character so go of that
Relationships are what you and your partner make them.
Assuming that she’s not open to an open / non-monogamous relationship, you’ve got to choose between confirmed happiness and going back to old patterns.
You’ve got to simply choose what you’ll be. It’s no more complicated than that.
The only really stupid thing would be to try to have it both ways.
I agree with that, respect their space but OPs issue were the personal insults. She could have told him without insulting him. The comment I was originally referencing was someone else’s take on it , someone giving their opinion, someone who seemingly doesn’t think permission for a button touch is an issue. Unfortunately none of us can really read each other’s tone.
Don’t talk about your money. This isn’t even a real question is it?
If you don't live with him, tell him “This relationship is over”. (that's a complete sentence). “You don't get to argue, it's over” That is a second complete sentence. Stay strong
If this was true…. No one should be able to drink, smoke, drive, vote, join military, or own a gun until 25. Scary to think we can do all those things without a fully developed brain
You're a very considerate and loving spouse.
That's a shitty road to have to be on
It has been a pattern and I try to help her and justify it. I feel stuck and sad and stuck and I think just overwhelmed
Do as she asks. Grow as a person. Focus on friends and family. Crush your career. Work on being a better you. Also don’t get trapped later down the road if she comes back. You owe it to yourself to experience other relationships and grow as an individual
You assumed there was no evidence and based your pointless comment off of that.
And get off tic tok, not everyone who says something you don’t like is a narcissist.
“SoUnDs LiKe” it literally didn’t sound like anything. But for some reason everyone’s lawyers and doctors on Reddit.
If you were in anyway smart instead of assuming you would of asked me.
Your “friends” are psychotic.
Would it be possible for her to move back home?
Not the ideal solution but at least then she'd be someone else's problem.
Ask if he had any relation to anyone that died. Your bf had valid points. I’ll ask this if your dad was randomly killed for this reason would you be understanding of why he died. I’m not gonna be angry at your dad for being upset that at that statement it’s a rough pill to swallow for any.
Please don’t listen to comments calling your dad a bad apple you know his character so go of that
Tell her.
Relationships are what you and your partner make them.
Assuming that she’s not open to an open / non-monogamous relationship, you’ve got to choose between confirmed happiness and going back to old patterns.
You’ve got to simply choose what you’ll be. It’s no more complicated than that.
The only really stupid thing would be to try to have it both ways.
12 years of marriage and 3 children later
…she comes clean. What an absolute fucking monster, letting him have kids with her so he'd be bound forever.
Her silence is answer enough. Stop before she goes the legal route.
You’re right. It’s weird. Maybe he’s pulling away for different reasons?
No, nope, no way, absolutely not. Do not hand half your paycheck over to him.
I agree with that, respect their space but OPs issue were the personal insults. She could have told him without insulting him. The comment I was originally referencing was someone else’s take on it , someone giving their opinion, someone who seemingly doesn’t think permission for a button touch is an issue. Unfortunately none of us can really read each other’s tone.
Bisexual woman here as well!
Cheating involves having any sexual interaction with another person that is not your monogamous partner without their knowledge or approval.
She is dumb. Oral sex IS sex. And she is cheating.
And exactly what happened to make you two separate? Context is needed
Okay but once you hear that's not how it works perhaps you should stop pushing?
The only cat he is visiting is her pussy. Wise up and get out of that relationship
Violence is always the answer I'm sure you will kearn that cone 2024