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He's been a virgin until not that long ago. He's developing sexually and there's gonna be some heightened interest in various types of sex until it settles down I'd guess. Just keep communicating what you enjoy and what you find a turn off, hopefully it settles down on something you both are able to do together without anyone feeling awkward.
he doesn’t watch porn
This is the biggest red flag out of all this.
So I didn't have kids when I became step mum to mine, nor did their step dad to that matter, but the thought of my babies being any different to my born babies is beyond me. But me and him do most handovers without any bio parents just because we're free, and we talk about our little monsters with both adoration and frustration. Do they have challenging behaviour? Sure, so does half their class. You can't shield your kids from “bad” influences their whole childhood that's ridiculous. So me and husband teach “his” kids to be positive role models and set good examples, whilst also trying to do that ourselves. My step babies are just as vital to me as my born babies, but then I was a step daughter who wasn't as important as her step sister so maybe that helps me… but in all honesty if you want a life with this woman you need her to want a life with you and your children, I cannot see how this would work without it long term.
i hope she breaks up with you lol
He didn’t mean any malice by it, he was just socially uncalibrated
Stop being an insecure dick
I’m perfectly capable of being kind and listening to someone’s feelings and story and then offer assurance and advice without being a dick.
Maybe the problem isn’t me after all, but just you people.
Exactly!
This is an invitation to compete for your partner… again. One reason for looking for a partner is never to hear this. I’m sorry, but there’s no way to imagine that this person still values the commitment you two previously shared. Recommend ending negotiations and beginning the break-up process. Good luck.
This. I feel like the post can really go both ways: the husband could be controlling and his behavior may be unreasonable and a red flag. BUT also it could be that his boundary here is reasonable, and the OP is the one in the wrong. After all, it's his house too.
It 100% depends on what the sister is like. Is she irrational, hostile, aggressive or messy? Nude to get rid of, a leech, on drugs? Or is she calm, sober and polite and then leaves when she said she would?
Bc if it's the first instance, then sorry OP, but you need to let it go. Your husband has the right to a safe home environment, end of the story. You can help her by paying for a hotel room, or a hostel, for example, or researching shelters for her, taking her there, etc.
And if it's the second, then seriously think about other behaviors you might have ignored, that are controlling or isolating, because YIKES. Sister not staying over is your smallest problem! Do not let him isolate you from your family!
Let me guess, you’ve dated narcissists as well?
But what would possess someone to behave this badly? is he really broke or just really stingy and gets off on humilating people? also do you think I should ask him to pay me back to see if he's serious? surely if he really “liked me”, he would do so right?
? Nobody deserves to be alone at Christmas ? x
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So he doesn’t trust you because of previous cheating and you don’t trust him because he’s sus with another girl? You really can’t have a good, healthy relationship if no one fully trusts the other. The tik tok stuff doesn’t matter in this – it’s the lack of overall trust on both ends. It may be better to leave this relationship where it’s at and continue with the therapy. You’re still young and you’ll eventually find someone who you can trust fully & matches up with your preferences that they don’t watch sexual tik toks or porn or whatever.
What do you get out of being in this relationship other than self doubt??
Did you match on Tinder?
Set the boyfriend free, let him soar high and fly far away from you and your pets. Can you really see your life without your pets in it? Can you love and respect someone who forces you to get rid of an animal?
…Or from a former British colony. Such as certain African countries and some Caribbean countries as well.
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This is a naked no OP…
Growing up in poverty is tough, escaping it even tougher. You’ve just about made it financially…(fund your emergency savings account and get your 401k/Roth IRA contributions going if you haven’t already). The absolute LAST thing you need is a $1k monthly obligation to someone else’s family. Growing up poor, I imagine you have some family that could use $1k a month too…why should you be sending money to her family?
I get that in Mexican culture, sending some money back to Mexico is common. That’s not what she’s asking. Likely, her mom has convinced her that her friends in Mexico has kids that send them money, if she were a good daughter she would too. She probably is already, and Mom wants more because The US is so expensive.
If you are set on being with this girl, (I recommend thinking hard on this one), the only way that I’d consider it is if you agreed to keep finances completely separate. Lots of couples lives together and pay common expenses according to their pro rata income. So if you make $100k and she makes $50k…you’re responsible for 2/4 of the common bills (rent, utilities, food, home maintenance, vacations, etc). The rest goes to personal bank accounts. Things like car payments, retirement savings, hobbies, regular payments to family, etc) are funded out of there. With her making $70k in her early 20’s and splitting bills with you, she should be fine sending that money if that’s what she wants to do.
If you discuss an arrangement like that and she isn’t receptive or is still hostile to that, then you aren’t compatible financially…which ought to be a deal breaker despite being compatible in other ways.
Also, if you haven’t discussed things like raising children (how many, what religion, where to live! for schools, etc) make sure you also have those talks before popping the question.
If you’ve grown up in poverty, you will likely feel “poor” even once you’re making your current income. For your own mental health and to help reframe how you view money you should spend the $1k a month on things you want (not things you need). If you view a savings account as something you’d never dream of having, it’s likely you have gone without many things for a long time and you need to undo that psychological hurdle so you can learn to enjoy the money that you make (in terms of things it can do for you).
Congrats on your financial success, and good luck avoiding the financial entanglement that is sitting in front of you.
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Right. My thoughts exactly. What would actually happen when I really messed up or did something wrong. This argument was because I decided to go get my nails done without telling him in advance so he could plan his morning
??You have no idea how awful is this
Abortion is likely not an option at this point anyways. This is a huge mess, you need to talk to your family or a really close friend because life is about to get very real for you
Please make it make sense for a grown up adult to be invested into his sibling's sex life so much that he crawls to Reddit to justify his behaviour…but can't master comprehensive communication and writing.
Gosh.
Oh so it's not the coconot story? Cool.
Oh so it's not the cumbox story? Cool.
OH, no. It's a story I didn't know yet. Not cool!
You aren't actually falling for the Tinder was hacked nonsense, are you?
Why not have a conversation? Honestly it sounds like OP did have a conversation and it came off as an ultimatum “stop watching porn or I’ll leave you” or “stop watching porn that’s cheating!” And honestly, you have no right to dictate what your partner can and cannot enjoy. It’s controlling and abusive.
I agree that guys hiding that they like to watch to porn because their girlfriends don’t like is weak AF and they should grow a back bone and leave their girls but also maybe their girls should stop trying to control their boyfriends thoughts. If a man told a woman she couldn’t watch magic Mike or 50 shades of grey or skme other type of pornography or something because it made it him uncomfortable I bet y’all would be saying he’s misogynistic and sexist and abusive and toxic, right?
Things like this are just insecurities and ego. Tbh fair or not, I would be basically saying to him it’s unfair for him to mention it. You were honest, he throws it in your face and he’s being a douche for doing so. If he does it again I’m out.
Sometimes being firm rather than empathetic when they’re just being children about it snaps partners out of their pity party
Could he have answered better? Sure. Was it the time or place to have a question/comment brought about him like that? Nah.
Neither you nor him is right. Just an unfortunate situation. If he's normally not like that, then chalk it up to a fuck up. We all have them.
I know my reaction was pretty shitty. I just knew she was upset and wouldn't talk about it, and wanted to fix it A.S.A.P. I can see looking back I was just making things worse.
“I don’t get it…can you explain it to me?”
I think you need to get into therapy now, and he needs to get into therapy when he wakes up.
Stay strong, you can make it through this.
I may have miss-used the word but He was 32 to her 21. And he treated her terribly for the first five years. I changed it to conditioned.
yeah he’s completely on board & agrees with me & told me how i shouldn’t feel bad or anything, so that’s helpful & yeah i’m planning on not answering his cousins calls any more because he just wants us to still come & make my future mil happy because she’s so excited like okay & imagine how excited i was as my sons mom to do those things that i get the right to do & not have it taken away by someone who barely sees my son to begin with
And he doesn’t want me to be upset about that. I would never control someone else after I’ve been abused in my past relationships.
Communication is important.
Talk to him that you don’t want guys in your home. Figure out/help where he wants.
Change is not bad.