The things I noted in what you wrote that also appeared in my unhealthy relationship was extreme defensiveness and raging when I said something they didn't like. Could you imagine screaming at someone in the amount of grief you had?
My ex also guilted me about my lowered libido when I was very sick.
He was also very good at, what they call cognitive empathy. They could seem like they had lots of real empathy when it made them look good. He was highly intelligent so it was pretty believable.
I hope I'm wrong but your partner's behaviour is really concerning to me.
Yeah these comments are worrisome. What if he was just taking a big #2?
„Hey, wanna fuck“
I know, right?
Yeah I has to read that again to be sure my eyes weren’t playing tricks on me
Watch for patterns of behaviour.
The things I noted in what you wrote that also appeared in my unhealthy relationship was extreme defensiveness and raging when I said something they didn't like. Could you imagine screaming at someone in the amount of grief you had?
My ex also guilted me about my lowered libido when I was very sick.
He was also very good at, what they call cognitive empathy. They could seem like they had lots of real empathy when it made them look good. He was highly intelligent so it was pretty believable.
I hope I'm wrong but your partner's behaviour is really concerning to me.
You have internet access. Google your nearest womens domestic violence shelter. They can and will help you.
Your (hopefully soon to be ex) bf is abusing you.