I mean all of what he wrote in his notepad to figure out what he wants in life sounds like positive things about you. It's the way you perceive what he thinks that can make you feel hurt.
Why the hell would safe and healthy not be a compliment? Exciting and passionate is attractive to everyone but if that's missing the mature aspects of a relationship then it's not something that lasts.
He made the right decision in determining to pursue you and not someone who has the same traits as his ex because he deemed that it wasn't good for him.
Sometimes taking things at face value can be detrimental to the actual facts. If you're in a happy relationship with this man then there's no issue. If you're not then this is fuel you're adding to build up to leave him, which you should.
Honestly yeah ☹️
I mean all of what he wrote in his notepad to figure out what he wants in life sounds like positive things about you. It's the way you perceive what he thinks that can make you feel hurt.
Why the hell would safe and healthy not be a compliment? Exciting and passionate is attractive to everyone but if that's missing the mature aspects of a relationship then it's not something that lasts.
He made the right decision in determining to pursue you and not someone who has the same traits as his ex because he deemed that it wasn't good for him.
Sometimes taking things at face value can be detrimental to the actual facts. If you're in a happy relationship with this man then there's no issue. If you're not then this is fuel you're adding to build up to leave him, which you should.