You might think that she's still in love with him but I doubt she is. She was told for 9 years that marriage wasn't an option with him. Then she finds out he's marrying someone who he has been with less than a year. She's probably wondering what is wrong with her and why she wasn't good enough to marry. It doesn't mean she wants to be with him, her self esteem has probably taken a massive hit. Breaking up with her over this will damage her self-esteem and confidence even more.
Oh no we definitely alluded to doing it, would that mean he doesn’t respect me then? 🙁
You might think that she's still in love with him but I doubt she is. She was told for 9 years that marriage wasn't an option with him. Then she finds out he's marrying someone who he has been with less than a year. She's probably wondering what is wrong with her and why she wasn't good enough to marry. It doesn't mean she wants to be with him, her self esteem has probably taken a massive hit. Breaking up with her over this will damage her self-esteem and confidence even more.
Tell her to hire someone