If you have previously enjoyed being intimate with her and something changed, I suggest talking with a doctor and a therapist of some sort. You may want to seek counseling regardless for all the family stuff.
Definitely a difference between attraction and romantic viability, and no one attracted to a 20 year old can be called a pedo, it's kind of in the definition. Adult is adult, the weirdness comes in with relative maturity, it's not saying the younger adult is suddenly a literal child.
If you have previously enjoyed being intimate with her and something changed, I suggest talking with a doctor and a therapist of some sort. You may want to seek counseling regardless for all the family stuff.
This for sure.
Definitely a difference between attraction and romantic viability, and no one attracted to a 20 year old can be called a pedo, it's kind of in the definition. Adult is adult, the weirdness comes in with relative maturity, it's not saying the younger adult is suddenly a literal child.