It sure sounds like you're withholding sex from him because you want to get married. If that's the case then you should have made that very clear right from the beginning, You know. The old saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free thing . Which it sounds like maybe you didn't do that. To have sexual relations before marriage and then all of a sudden saying no more sex before marriage is like using sex as a weapon. If so, that's no way to start a marriage.
Particularly when one partner is expressing that it’s an issue for them. Sex is a two way street. No one is entitled to anyone else’s body, but sudden changes that are impacting the relationship are absolutely something that need to be addressed.
A part of me just really wants to believe him. But there’s just no way he doesn’t realize how this comes across. I always imagine how he would’ve reacted, if I told him one of my friends’ boyfriends did this. I just know for a fact that he would be judging it so very hot
It sure sounds like you're withholding sex from him because you want to get married. If that's the case then you should have made that very clear right from the beginning, You know. The old saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free thing . Which it sounds like maybe you didn't do that. To have sexual relations before marriage and then all of a sudden saying no more sex before marriage is like using sex as a weapon. If so, that's no way to start a marriage.
Particularly when one partner is expressing that it’s an issue for them. Sex is a two way street. No one is entitled to anyone else’s body, but sudden changes that are impacting the relationship are absolutely something that need to be addressed.
“Babe, your sister only comes over once a week or I won't marry you”
A part of me just really wants to believe him. But there’s just no way he doesn’t realize how this comes across. I always imagine how he would’ve reacted, if I told him one of my friends’ boyfriends did this. I just know for a fact that he would be judging it so very hot
You just dismiss her extreme illness as no big deal, you knew she’d be fine, and complain about breast size?
You’re not a good life partner.
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