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Taking control of her life would have been to say “no” regardless of circumstances? What if she has been threaten for saying no in the past? What if she has been beaten within an inch of her life for saying no?
How easy would it be for you to say no if most of the other times in your life you had been harmed for saying no? We have no idea if physical threats were present or not. We only know that she is a survivor of assault.
You told OP they were “poisoning their relationship.” That may even be true, but shaming them when they ask for advice and telling them the situation is all their fault is massively toxic and narrow. We, as the audience, know precious little facts about the situation and all those statements were your personal projections onto the situation.
You told us a lot about yourself and the things you assume about other people
Can I dm you in a bit more detail as this is my first post here and I’m not 100% Comfortable posting here yet .. just need to talk to someone about it as I’m on my own here With a thousand things gone round my head
Because the information is relevant to her, which she has made clear. You stretching reasons to disrespect that is weird.
It depends on what actually happened. It's possible it was disrespectful, it's also possible it wasn't. There's nothing wrong with being thorough and covering all possibilities.
it looks like you just want to try and antagonize people.
Projection. I'm just disagreeing with people and making points. I lack diplomacy and tact, so this can come off as antagonizing, but that's not the goal. The goal is to make points and have discussion. And also because I lack diplomacy and tact is why I get on reddit and practice.
It is disrespectful to her to have pursued her sister beforehand, even if it was before he met her, and not have even mentioned it.
And see here's the thing: Asking for a number, through a friend, and never even getting it, and then obviously giving up at that point and taking no other action, is a pretty low bar to call that 'pursued.' Especially if you're adding in that it occurred before he ever met OP.
If they met at same time, you'd have a point that this was an action he took with Anna, first, before taking any action with OP. But if they didn't meet at same time, then it's such a small nothing of an action that mentioning it at all makes it a bigger deal than it actually is in the first place.
Ultimately what matters is exactly what conversation they had in the first place; only that determines whether his asking for Anna's number is or isn't relevant to the conversation they had. So, covering all possibilities: Possibility 1, the conversation was pretty clear and relevant that he should have said something, and it was a lie of omission. Possibility 2: The conversation wasn't actually as clear as you're assuming, and Evan never realized that having asked for Anna's number was important for OP to know.
Possibility 3: It occurred so long ago and mattered so little to Evan that he forgot he ever asked for Anna's number until Sam said anything about it. Even during the conversation with OP.
Could be even more possibilities. Who knows.
If she wants to have that conversation with him, that harms nothing. In fact it's helpful to get even more details on his side of the story, and/or explain to him what he did wrong, if applicable.
I just don't like to make assumptions when there's other possibilities on the table.
Your boyfriend wants to make sure the world knows you’re a taken woman without making the commitment himself. From what you wrote, it seems like he has no desire to actually propose and he’s trying to shift the blame onto you. In which case his non commitment is your own fault and you can’t leave him because he really really wants to be with you (strong you along as long as possible).