OP so many sex negative and religious projection in some of the moralizing here. Know that having an orgasm daily has positive health benefits. Perhaps consider compromising on the porn consumption and waiting after she sleeps aspect. Have some conversations on orgasm vs intimacy. Make sure her needs for intimacy are met too. Other comments asking if she orgasms are good to address. But despite many comments here getting upvoted saying otherwise – please don't feel that your need to orgasm on the daily is in any form an inherently “bad” need. It is not.
Best advice I could give is to give him an ultimatum and if he's still lies, divorce him
OP so many sex negative and religious projection in some of the moralizing here. Know that having an orgasm daily has positive health benefits. Perhaps consider compromising on the porn consumption and waiting after she sleeps aspect. Have some conversations on orgasm vs intimacy. Make sure her needs for intimacy are met too. Other comments asking if she orgasms are good to address. But despite many comments here getting upvoted saying otherwise – please don't feel that your need to orgasm on the daily is in any form an inherently “bad” need. It is not.