I’ve told him in many conversations that I need more, and he doesn’t understand that foreplay isn’t just the bedroom, that I like to be touched ALOT before. His idea was to get lube and try to touch me while I go down on him. I like that hair tie idea, his issues is he feels like he has to be the one to initiate when I’ve been the person doing it this whole time.
Yeah if you are still in a relationship while she is f'ing around it only works when you are 100% on board and usually is that way from the get go
It's time to demote this girl to FWB and start looking for other options , whether you tell her this is what you are doing is up to you
She is 26 and clearly still wants to party so either way I get the impression she won't be to fazed by it.
I’ve told him in many conversations that I need more, and he doesn’t understand that foreplay isn’t just the bedroom, that I like to be touched ALOT before. His idea was to get lube and try to touch me while I go down on him. I like that hair tie idea, his issues is he feels like he has to be the one to initiate when I’ve been the person doing it this whole time.
That’s true. Thank you