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1. Oof, this is rough. Usually I’m on the pregnant one’s side, but…. You’re right that ultimatums are unhealthy. Was she like this before the pregnancy?

   It’s alarming that instead of finding a compromise, she’s making unilateral decisions. I looked up your breed. It seems they may need more exercise/stimulation than you are currently providing. Double what you’re currently doing, from my quick search. So she’s right on that. Could you hire a dog walker midday? Maybe some training courses?

   It made me sad to hear she only walked one dog. Honestly, why? Why doesn’t she like your dog? Kind of feel you might be leaving something out. High energy is usually code for a rowdy dog.. and I can see why she doesn’t want that around a newborn. And if he’s constantly whining, that is negatively effecting her work. You check the cameras occasionally. She’s there all day. So I do trust her account of what’s happening at home over yours.

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2. I'm someone who works in a very people-centered field and deal with a lot of big personalities in a business type environment, and I consider myself highly introverted. I dislike talking to people and putting in effort 100% of the time and my job makes me want to die most days.

   That said, I love my wife. She's a phenomenal person and I always try to spend a lot of time with her. Thankfully, she usually passes out early so I can have a few hours to myself every night before bed. The important thing we try to focus on is making sure each other's needs are met. She needs physical affection and quality time. I'm just happy to have her around and don't consider myself to need her physical presence a lot of the time, but it's important to acknowledge that she does.

   We always try to talk and spend time together undistracted in the evenings and do fun things during the day when we're off, but will make it known when either of us just needs to be alone. When we're bothered, we communicate and say we need more and then we give more.

   The key is transparency. Don't be afraid to ask for more, but make sure you aren't forcing each other to sacrifice any happiness. If he needs time to himself one night, give it to him, but ask him if he can do a little something extra with you that week because you love him and want to spend some extra time with him. My wife and I have recently taken to reading more when I (or even her) need space. We get to cuddle, and just be in our own books and minds, but we're together. Find something that gives you both the satisfaction of being alone but spending time together.

   Communication is everything. Don't be upset if he needs more one week over another, just tell him how you feel and what you need. If he's an adult and cares about you, he will be more than willing to give you more as long as he knows you respect him and his space when he needs it.

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