You are overthinking. It will feel different. You gave birth. Not bad different. Just different. I’ve had 5 kids and my husband has never complained once that it felt bad or didn’t feel good. It’s just changed after birth. No big deal. He’s probably more worried he won’t be able to satisfy you after seeing a birth. It’s all ok.
I've been to many docs.
You are overthinking. It will feel different. You gave birth. Not bad different. Just different. I’ve had 5 kids and my husband has never complained once that it felt bad or didn’t feel good. It’s just changed after birth. No big deal. He’s probably more worried he won’t be able to satisfy you after seeing a birth. It’s all ok.