Congrats on your sobriety. While it's admirable that you want to help her, it's very likely that she's in a different spot in life than you and will only help you relapse. It's time for you to start over, and that means cutting off someone who is causing you pain (and also lying to you).
Yeah, if Husband ever yelled at me to “get the fuck away from me,” I would be doing that by taking my Daughter and moving in with family.
Arguments are one thing. I admit we’ve both yelled, but we have never used that sort of language to each other!
Congrats on your sobriety. While it's admirable that you want to help her, it's very likely that she's in a different spot in life than you and will only help you relapse. It's time for you to start over, and that means cutting off someone who is causing you pain (and also lying to you).