This is just my side of the story, I’m sure that through her lens reality looks different. I am scared of taking a stance that could destroy our relationship if I’m not seeing this well. I am super confused at the moment. She has me in a state where I feel wrecked and with no space to talk about it.
So? Maybe she wants a night to herself. That she would not do the same thing you would is not an immediate red flag. I would also not invite you after you got weird about a coworker that she has barely spent time with in the year she’s been at this company.
This is just my side of the story, I’m sure that through her lens reality looks different. I am scared of taking a stance that could destroy our relationship if I’m not seeing this well. I am super confused at the moment. She has me in a state where I feel wrecked and with no space to talk about it.
If there is a school in your next destination, why not? I wouldn't leave in between terms though
babies are not consequences
Pretty sure 15k is an asset but what do i know
So? Maybe she wants a night to herself. That she would not do the same thing you would is not an immediate red flag. I would also not invite you after you got weird about a coworker that she has barely spent time with in the year she’s been at this company.