This person seems to be more concerned about what you can buy her in terms of gifts and trips rather than you (aka the person she’s supposed to be in the relationship with)
She established she didn’t want you to get her anything? Take that at face value and stop fucking around with childish mind games.
All in all, your gf seems like she sees you as a means to an end (obtaining gifts?) and not as a partner.
Pretty horrible thing to say to anyone let alone your sibling, I'm sorry that happened to you.
Of course she wants you to stay and figure things out. Have you never heard of having your cake and fucking it too?
So a person had their nudes shared without consent and you're worried about how that made you feel about your wiener?
You both seem like just lovely people.
This person seems to be more concerned about what you can buy her in terms of gifts and trips rather than you (aka the person she’s supposed to be in the relationship with)
She established she didn’t want you to get her anything? Take that at face value and stop fucking around with childish mind games.
All in all, your gf seems like she sees you as a means to an end (obtaining gifts?) and not as a partner.