Agreed. But as previously stated, if you have a history of not being transparent or misleading, it’s may not be JUST because you did it this time. It might be because she asked you to put in more effort to communicating clearly and being transparent repeatedly over 5 years, and you keep choosing to ignore her need for explicit honesty.
As to the nudes Before is before she committed to you. I would be ok with it.
Her still talking to him while you are together is a different issue and I think it would be ok to ask her to stop.
Agreed. But as previously stated, if you have a history of not being transparent or misleading, it’s may not be JUST because you did it this time. It might be because she asked you to put in more effort to communicating clearly and being transparent repeatedly over 5 years, and you keep choosing to ignore her need for explicit honesty.