Stand your ground. The friends and family members you text/chat with have the right to privacy. It’s beyond clear that she doesn’t give one tiny little fuck about those people.
If she’s willing to end a relationship because she can’t walk all over you and violate your and everyone else’s privacy, it’s not a relationship worth having. Her attitude is utterly disrespectful and disgusting.
Beat her to the punch. “I’m unwilling to let you continue to violate my privacy and that of everyone I communicate with. As a result, our relationship is over.” She’ll scream and cry and accuse you of not trusting her, but don’t fall for it. Figure out if you’re leaving your home or if she is beforehand and add that on at the end.
When it comes to gifts they are just that, gifts. They aren’t expected and we should appreciate every gift we get. She is spending her time (something you can never get back) on something just for you. You might not like the material item itself but I’m sure you can appreciate the time she put in. Love is about making sacrifices even if they are small. I think you need to learn to appreciate what she does give you.
Another note, it might not be a bad idea to reciprocate to her. Instead of spending money on a material item, it could be a good idea to give her something you spent time and thought into. I think that would mean a lot more to her.
I wish you the best in your relationship but I suggest you do not tell her you don’t want anymore of her paintings.
Stand your ground. The friends and family members you text/chat with have the right to privacy. It’s beyond clear that she doesn’t give one tiny little fuck about those people.
If she’s willing to end a relationship because she can’t walk all over you and violate your and everyone else’s privacy, it’s not a relationship worth having. Her attitude is utterly disrespectful and disgusting.
Beat her to the punch. “I’m unwilling to let you continue to violate my privacy and that of everyone I communicate with. As a result, our relationship is over.” She’ll scream and cry and accuse you of not trusting her, but don’t fall for it. Figure out if you’re leaving your home or if she is beforehand and add that on at the end.
When it comes to gifts they are just that, gifts. They aren’t expected and we should appreciate every gift we get. She is spending her time (something you can never get back) on something just for you. You might not like the material item itself but I’m sure you can appreciate the time she put in. Love is about making sacrifices even if they are small. I think you need to learn to appreciate what she does give you.
Another note, it might not be a bad idea to reciprocate to her. Instead of spending money on a material item, it could be a good idea to give her something you spent time and thought into. I think that would mean a lot more to her.
I wish you the best in your relationship but I suggest you do not tell her you don’t want anymore of her paintings.