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Humm okay so the issue is specifically holidays and birthdays?
How was it handled in his family growing up? Was it something that wasn't really practiced? Or maybe gifts weren't something given much?
Regardless though, you made it clear how you feel and he obviously doesn't care enough to put in the effort. I guess it's up to you if you're okay with always giving more than you'll receive.
People generally don't change. No matter how much you want them to. It's up to him if he feels it's important enough to make you a priority when it comes to things like this. Nothing you do yourself will be a permanent solution to change his actions within this relationship.
it's an understandable response if she isn't used to it.
No it's not
I wouldn't bother. It's a hypothetical and if he says “of course” you haven't solved anything and he is not going to say differently because the other answer doesn't get him his way.
The problem is that he wants his kid to inherit his half while you see all three kids as “ours” and so you want an even split.
It sucks, but I would tread lightly. While his half is arguably larger than he would have on his own since you make more, it is still kind of an AH move to hold that over his head when your marriage has been about combing resources and you start playing a what-if game of if you would have always out earned him or if having him helped you prioritize work to get to where you are at.
You really need to decide how important this is to you and how far you are willing to go and what that ultimately looks like. Are you willing to divorce over this? Would splitting your finances now impact how much you could potentially leave your kids in a meaningful way (either splitting through divorce or just moving to separate finances moving forward)? If you split finances is he going to become a penny pinching mizier who tries to get you to pay for things so he has more to leave his kid? It's also fair to tell him that you didn't realize he didn't actually see your kids as his and that has changed how you view him.
This will be difficult to navigate if neither of you will budge, but it might be worth talking to a therapist, financial advisor, and/or a lawyer to figure out options and what they all look like and talk through the potential impact/ legality of different scenarios both emotionally as well as legally/financially.
As someone who was in your exact situation minus a couple years in age I would say this is not an issue with your girlfriend its an issue with you. Relationships are fucking hard and living with someone is even harder, multiply that by 10 since its both of your first relationships and you both probably do not have the experience in communication yet.
I was and still am sometimes that person that thinks issues are small when they were a big deal to my partner. If your partner is constantly addressing an issue to you then it is a big deal to them it doesn't matter if it seems like a small issue to you. having a good and healthy relationship is having a mutual respect and care about one another what hurts your partner may not hurt you but the fact that it does hurt your partner should hurt you enough to take them seriously and want to alleviate the issue as best you can.
frankly youre being a little selfish by not taking her seriously and thinking this is all her issue and not yours too. if youre serious about this girl seek counseling both for just your self and as a couple. It really help to have a neutral party guide the conversation and teach you good conversation habits. but If thats too much for you then maybe you should seriously discuss ending things.
bottom line, you both need to meet halfway and take each other seriously, learn better speaking habits, treat each other with a mutual respect and love for one another.