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Simply put if he’s into the traditional way of the culture then yes, he will go back and be married to whomever his parents chooses or if he wants he can break out of that old tradition and be with you.
The choice is really entirely up to him, but I do think it’s best to talk about it when you get the chance and clear things out. If his goal is to still proceed with his traditions then I guess you gotta respect that and just cut ties now rather than later.
All the best though.
After reading your original post I hate to say it but I'm Team Soon To Be Ex-Wife, here. You have decided that the best way for you to deal with your mother is ignore her horrible indefensible behavior and act like it's not happening. I'm glad that works for you, it wouldn't work for most people. It CLEARLY doesn't work for your wife.
The bottom line here is that your insistence on including your mother basically ruined the wedding AND the reception. Then after your mom stomped all over your wedding and made the entire thing about her when your dad suggested you go say goodbye to them you actually went rather than staying with your incredibly upset wife. Now you think your wife must have Borderline Personality Disorder because she's not thrilled with this situation?
Let me try to explain to you how all this looks from your wife's POV. She already knew she was marrying a guy with a nasty hateful batshit crazy mother, and she was willing to do so because she thought in a confrontation between her and your mother, who you freely admit is nuts, you would take your wife's side. The wedding showed her that your idea of supporting your wife is just sort of standing around while your mom rampages through special events like Narcissist Godzilla, and then you act like everything is fine. Your wife is realizing she has just signed up for a lifetime of your mom doing whatever she wants and you minimizing and ignoring it, and she wants out. I don't blame her. She is realizing that if you let your mother behave like this during your wedding then that is going to be the state of her marriage going forward, and she no longer wants to be married.
I have pleaded with her to try and work on the relationship but she is firm that there is no way forward right now but maybe in several months we can get back together.
That's because she's hoping you'll come to your goddamned senses, realize your mother is ruining your relationships, and cut contact. Instead you're doing what you've always done, which seems to be essentially nothing.