There are no rational explanations here. You two are sexually incompatible. Moreover he very childishly refuses to talk about it. You know what you should do before resentment sets in
Lol. You think vulgar granny gives any fucks about you clutching your pearls while she gets a good chuckle? I donât disagree it stands to reason this could get awkward. But shiiiit, when Iâm old and gray I hope Iâm this funny. As long as granny isnât having health issues causing uncharacteristic behavior, this is the kind of thing people like you need to either a) lighten up and laugh a little or b) give people with a sense of humor a good laugh when your panties get all in a bunch. Because I bet you wear the big ol granny ones. Thongs are SO distasteful! But lucky for me Iâm vulgar and donât wear any panties at all! You should try it! That stick up your ass might fall out though. ???
I think you need to accept that the prefix “textbook” something is rather humorous and you should not be upset about it.
Just think one thing through – it is not fun to be to fast – but today I would be very happy if that would be my problem. I have the opposite where unless there are chemical support nothing happens.
Try viagra – that is said to help restarting the process again. People also say condoms can have a prolonging effect as well.
I think you two arent meant for each other. You had to rehome your dog because there was no way you two could live together and now she is jealous that you got yourself a dog.
You were already struggling with living together after two years, why was that? I really cant tell and I havent noticed if you explained that but I can clearly now that for her your dog is something to be jealous of and not something to take care of it together as a couple.
Honestly even if I liked a person I would balk at being asked out like that. Because you didn't ask her out, did you? You made a statement with the implicit assumption that she was going to go out with you. On top of being demanding, it's also a really transparent tactic to try and make it difficult for someone to refuse you.
That would set off serious red flags for me and I doubt I would want to risk a date on the off-chance that the person is just socially awkward and not weird and controlling. You're right though, and it's probably a no from her. I wouldn't bother her about it again – she said she'd tell you when she's free, so if she's interested she'll get back to you.
I don't know if you're into pick-up artist bullshit, but this sounds like something they'd recommend. Just FYI most women can see through that shit the same way you know a salesman is trying to manipulate you into buying something you don't really want. It's not going to do you any favours, compared to say, being confident, non-threatening and polite.
Child, Iâve been in monogamous marriage for 7 years and you canât even get over the fact that your girlfriend has an ex ? It is the lonely life for you sir.
Break up with her 100% she deserves a real man who is secure in himself what you need to know that is that itâs baby men like yourself who lie to women about their intentions that lead to âbody countsâ
The perfect girlfriend for you is the kind you need a air pump for.
First of all it's been a DAY. Give her some time. What just happened is incredibly violating and traumatic. She's probably terrified and riddled with anxiety.
Keep an open but respectful distance. Don't push. Let her come to you.
Vasectomies are not considered reversible. The longer itâs been the less chance you have of a successful reversal, and itâs not guaranteed in the first place. Some people will never be able to reproduce again regardless of time since, some people have to have the procedure done multiple times because it wasnât successful. If you want kids or think you might in the future, you should not consider a vasectomy. They are not reliably reversible.
You're overthinking things to the point you think liking her photo will let her know you're into her. When people like my photo I usually go oh that must've been a nice photo, and most of the time don't even check who liked it. She is definitely not going to know or care lol
Just go on a date get to know her and move from there. It's been 9 years. She's a different person. Don't let your dick make relationship decisions
Concern because you're flinging charges of addiction around based on a wildly inaccurate of the word 'addiction' isn't the same as “upset because I'm addicted.”
$150K plus whatever you have is beyond enough for a large downpayment. Unless youâre trying to buy a whole brownstone in Manhattan, whatâs the issue? Buy a house yâall can afford with the money between just the two of you.
Also – have a serious conversation about money before yâall get married.
How much are you putting down? Whatever you bring + his 150k is A LOT of money for a down payment. If that's not enough, you need to look at other options (downsizing, other areas). Owning that much money to a family member is a sure way to ruin your relationship with them. They will be judging every purchase you make, every holiday you take, every time you order takeaway before paying them. Don't do it.
thats it .
There are no rational explanations here. You two are sexually incompatible. Moreover he very childishly refuses to talk about it. You know what you should do before resentment sets in
Honest question why be with someone who has no interest in being with you.
Wait three months to make it official? Are you in a relationship or having a baby?
These types of stories are becoming all too common these days.
This makes me so sad đ if they wanted a decoration they should have gotten a plushie
Lol. You think vulgar granny gives any fucks about you clutching your pearls while she gets a good chuckle? I donât disagree it stands to reason this could get awkward. But shiiiit, when Iâm old and gray I hope Iâm this funny. As long as granny isnât having health issues causing uncharacteristic behavior, this is the kind of thing people like you need to either a) lighten up and laugh a little or b) give people with a sense of humor a good laugh when your panties get all in a bunch. Because I bet you wear the big ol granny ones. Thongs are SO distasteful! But lucky for me Iâm vulgar and donât wear any panties at all! You should try it! That stick up your ass might fall out though. ???
I think you need to accept that the prefix “textbook” something is rather humorous and you should not be upset about it.
Just think one thing through – it is not fun to be to fast – but today I would be very happy if that would be my problem. I have the opposite where unless there are chemical support nothing happens.
Try viagra – that is said to help restarting the process again. People also say condoms can have a prolonging effect as well.
I think you two arent meant for each other. You had to rehome your dog because there was no way you two could live together and now she is jealous that you got yourself a dog.
You were already struggling with living together after two years, why was that? I really cant tell and I havent noticed if you explained that but I can clearly now that for her your dog is something to be jealous of and not something to take care of it together as a couple.
Honestly even if I liked a person I would balk at being asked out like that. Because you didn't ask her out, did you? You made a statement with the implicit assumption that she was going to go out with you. On top of being demanding, it's also a really transparent tactic to try and make it difficult for someone to refuse you.
That would set off serious red flags for me and I doubt I would want to risk a date on the off-chance that the person is just socially awkward and not weird and controlling. You're right though, and it's probably a no from her. I wouldn't bother her about it again – she said she'd tell you when she's free, so if she's interested she'll get back to you.
I don't know if you're into pick-up artist bullshit, but this sounds like something they'd recommend. Just FYI most women can see through that shit the same way you know a salesman is trying to manipulate you into buying something you don't really want. It's not going to do you any favours, compared to say, being confident, non-threatening and polite.
Child, Iâve been in monogamous marriage for 7 years and you canât even get over the fact that your girlfriend has an ex ? It is the lonely life for you sir.
Break up with her 100% she deserves a real man who is secure in himself what you need to know that is that itâs baby men like yourself who lie to women about their intentions that lead to âbody countsâ
The perfect girlfriend for you is the kind you need a air pump for.
First of all it's been a DAY. Give her some time. What just happened is incredibly violating and traumatic. She's probably terrified and riddled with anxiety.
Keep an open but respectful distance. Don't push. Let her come to you.
Thank you!
Vasectomies are not considered reversible. The longer itâs been the less chance you have of a successful reversal, and itâs not guaranteed in the first place. Some people will never be able to reproduce again regardless of time since, some people have to have the procedure done multiple times because it wasnât successful. If you want kids or think you might in the future, you should not consider a vasectomy. They are not reliably reversible.
I thought OP said he was abusive from the beginning with her?
You're overthinking things to the point you think liking her photo will let her know you're into her. When people like my photo I usually go oh that must've been a nice photo, and most of the time don't even check who liked it. She is definitely not going to know or care lol
Just go on a date get to know her and move from there. It's been 9 years. She's a different person. Don't let your dick make relationship decisions
Oh, I see what's motivating you here:
Concern because you're flinging charges of addiction around based on a wildly inaccurate of the word 'addiction' isn't the same as “upset because I'm addicted.”
Glad we could clear that up.
$150K plus whatever you have is beyond enough for a large downpayment. Unless youâre trying to buy a whole brownstone in Manhattan, whatâs the issue? Buy a house yâall can afford with the money between just the two of you.
Also – have a serious conversation about money before yâall get married.
How much are you putting down? Whatever you bring + his 150k is A LOT of money for a down payment. If that's not enough, you need to look at other options (downsizing, other areas). Owning that much money to a family member is a sure way to ruin your relationship with them. They will be judging every purchase you make, every holiday you take, every time you order takeaway before paying them. Don't do it.
It doesnât sound as if you have talked about this. Ask him, not strangers.